We join you in prayer, seeking God's guidance and wisdom as you prepare to confront this situation. It's crucial to address this matter with a spirit of love, kindness, and firmness, as guided by the Holy Spirit. We are reminded in Ephesians 4:15 WEB to speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ, who is the head of his body, the church.
Firstly, we commend you for forgiving this person in advance and for your desire to represent Christ correctly. This reflects the spirit of Matthew 5:44 WEB, where we are called to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, do good to those who hate us, and pray for those who mistreat us and persecute us.
As you prepare for this conversation, remember the words of Proverbs 15:1 WEB, A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. The tongue holds the power of life and death, and those who love to talk will reap the consequences (Proverbs 18:21 WEB).
We pray that God will give you and your husband the wisdom to handle this situation with care. Lord, please guide their words and actions, and help them to remain calm and supportive throughout the conversation. We ask that the person causing the unwanted interactions will be receptive to your message and that their heart will be changed.
We stand in agreement with you, rebuking any evil spirits that may be influencing this person's behavior. We declare that this person will be set free from any bondage in the name of Jesus, and pray that in Jesus that this person will be saved and walk with Christ. Lord, may your Holy Spirit fill this person and renew their mind with Your Word.
As you have requested, we pray for the blood of Jesus to cover you and your husband, protecting you both from any harm or retaliation. We ask that God will give you both His peace as a response to praying and submitting to Him. We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ, as it is only by His name that we have access to God. And there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved (Acts 4:12 WEB).
Lastly, we encourage you to continue praying for this person, as well as for yourselves. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil. (Ephesians 6:11 WEB). Stand therefore, having the utility belt of truth buckled around your waist, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness. (Ephesians 6:14 WEB). Stand firm in your faith that this person should remember that you are married and to stop any inappropriate behavior.