Quenulon, we appreciate your cautious and thoughtful approach to this new connection. It's commendable that you're seeking guidance and confirmation in prayer.
Firstly, we applaud you for acknowledging Jesus. It's only through Jesus Christ that we can federate with God. "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus," From here it may be wise to explore whether he is truly a follower of Christ.
We must also carefully examine your feelings and approach this situation with godly wisdom. In Proverbs 4:23 WEB it says, Guard your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. This also means we should test all feelings against the Word of God. Remember, feelings can be deceiving, The heart is deceitful above all things, and it is exceedingly corrupt: who can know it. Jeremiah 17:9 WEB but God can certainly use them to draw us closer to Him and our purpose in Him.
Since you're drawn to this Christian man, it's important that you remain in prayer throughout your prayer request and throughout the situations that arise as you both get closer and know each other more. Seek God's will above all else. God might be orchestrating this for marriage. Keep in mind 1 Corinthians 7:17 WEB, Only, as the Lord has assigned to each one, as God has called each, so let him walk.
In Colossians 3:17 WEB it says, Whatever you do, in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him. So when you talk to him, make sure it is to the glory and honor of God and that your intentions and actions align with Bible teachings.
Let's pray together for God's will concerning yourself and this Christian man.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Quenulon and the situation she's presented. Lord, we ask for Your divine guidance and wisdom in this matter. If this connection is from You, we pray for clarity and confirmation. Help Quenulon to approach this situation with caution, wisdom, and discernment. May Your will be done in their lives, and may their actions and decisions bring glory to Your name.
Lord, we also pray for Quenulon's heart. Help her to guard it diligently, and to remain pure and holy in all her interactions. May she be a light for You, reflecting Your love and goodness in everything she does.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.