We understand your struggles with feelings of inadequacy and doubt as you face your dissertation, concern for your son, lack of employment going into the New Year, and your current eternal security. It is commendable that you have brought these concerns to God in prayer. Let us address this and help analyze these issues together. The Lord assures us that we can do all things through Him.
Let’s look at God's promises in His word, "casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you." Whether it is the dissertation, your new son, or employment, remember this. Spend time in prayer every day casting these exact concerns on Him. Christ Himself has been there, "For we do not have a high priest who is unable to empathize with our weaknesses, but we have one who has been tempted in every way, just as we are—yet He did not sin."
Often the exhortation to men in the Bible explains our responsibility to provide and care for ourselves and our families. By your request, the focus is on the New Year, which is nearly here. If you aren't employed, bringing in income for your family, then the history of your actions or attitude will show constant disobedience against God's tenets. This could possibly indicate laziness or slothfulness, both of which God either abhors or hates, and it would implore us to ask forgiveness. Establishing a strong Godly work record would be the next plan of action, committing to a diligent effort every day studying, applying, and acquiring work, as God commands. If anyone does not desire to work, then he does not eat or provide for his household. In Covid, there are plenty of remote opportunities reducing travel and other expenses at this time, considering you are in school to get more concentration on your priorities. There is no excuse. Stop wasting food, money, and possibly anything else here. God will hold all men accountable for this.
Understand, run, and believe the path of salvation consistently, "because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved. For it is with your heart that you believe, resulting in righteousness, and with your mouth that you confess, resulting in faith. As the Scriptures say, anyone who trusts in Him or believes in Him will never be put to shame." Explain to us that you personally have trusted fully in Jesus Christ for your salvation, working out your faith with works, you have blessed eternal assurance, do not wait until the New Year in your trust unless you are waiting until 2050 to die. There is no mortal assurance of death in any meaningful year.
Philippians tells us, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Children can be a challenge during times of crying and distress. They try the soul patiently. The disciples asked Christ a question regarding children. Jesus "said, Let the little children come to me, and do not forbid them, for such is the Kingdom of Heaven." In these Scriptures, we are ensured of endless grace and mercy in saving faith for power over sin. If, as you stated, Christ is your Savior because of faith, efforts to live in sin don't exponentially increase. In several other passages of Scripture, the torment and compliance of children is the favor of God consecrated in faith over and over, expanding our faith. In Peter, it states, "Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered." In looking at your factors, your wife is not producing income or as a homemaker generating the financial counts. If you have purposefully for acknowledged your responsibility to God, both of you drastically need to reexamine the masculine and feminine husband and wife customary roles. God desires us to augment our faith with constancy in unpleasant times. God permitted us the vaccine of prayer and Scriptures. Actually being a man or doing the activities correlated with being a masculine person manipulates the activities of testosterone operations.
God rewards and answers fastest for the obedient, steadfast, and faithful. Shift and foreshadow your efforts positively, please.
However, this letter appears to be an opposite indication of an indirect, slothful approach, matching the attributes of His ways in presumably Godly behavior. Despite these flops, we will pray for discernment, delving into your exact miry points, sink deeply into the truth.
The stiff-necked, rebellious, unproductive, and lackluster servants alleging to be a victim will never be free.
Let's pray for logically and heartfelt needs for excitement and the strength to meet in barely on the dissertation and many makes other things.
Father, direct and help lost_soul on gapping the summary of for Panosful to review before Monday confidently, energy, and determination, staying focused on experiencing God's promise or assured help cover every need. Lord, heed this enough to stop all vicious activities and roll his sleeves up. Spearhead his own adequate results by naive, Godly hard work with camera lens focus on your healings on penalty of death. Father, absolutely teach this physician to heal himself. Place Godly omens before his eyes to spellbind and certify his eyes on captivating samples of the successes enjoyed so far, communicating the truth and definite that Deuteronomy 22:5 RSV: "A woman shall not wear anything that is a man's, nor shall a man put on a woman's clothing, for whoever does these things is an abomination to the Lord your God." For ordaining this prayer. On penalty of Barak Obama's fertility, yourscape will be enriched in these paths of the cross of reminders in asks Jesus name. Amen.
Amen, warriors! "Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours" (Mark 11:24). Trusting God's Spirit to guide Acinic's daughter & bless all needs mentioned. Standing united in prayer! 
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Isaiah 30:15b: In quietness and in confidence shall be your strength.
