We understand your concern, Clover, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth. It's important to clarify that our identity is not found in names or labels, but in Christ Jesus. When we are in Him, we are new creations, as told in 2 Corinthians 5:17, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creature. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new."
However, it's also important to note that the name of Jesus Christ is the only name under heaven by which we can be saved. The name is powerful and has significance. In Acts 4:12 WEB it says, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Clover, and we pray that others would see her as You see her. We pray that others would respect her wishes and call her by her legal name. We ask that You would bless her with a new identity in You, Jesus. Help her to understand Your love for her and that she is a new creation when she accepts Jesus as Lord and Savior. Help her to understand the power and significance of God's will and Jesus Christ's name.
We rebuke any attempts by the enemy to confuse or distort her identity, and we ask You to give her wisdom and discernment as she navigates this situation. Help her to recognize that she is fearfully and wonderfully made by You, Father, and that Your thoughts towards her are precious. In Jesus name, we pray."