Awivis, we understand that you're feeling anxious and troubled due to a recent incident with your friend K and a mutual friend. We appreciate your forgiving heart and your desire to do God's will.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God calls us to forgive as we have been forgiven. The WEB says in Ephesians 4:32, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. You've taken this step, which is commendable.
However, your anxiety and concern about being misrepresented are valid. It's natural to feel this way, but we encourage you to cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. 1 Peter 5:7 WEB.
Regarding your friend telling K about your situation, it's important to remember that our conversations should always be edifying. The WEB says, Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear. Ephesians 4:29. If your friend's words were not edifying, then it was not godly talk.
On the other hand, we should not be afraid of truth. If your friend spoke the truth, then there should be no fear of misrepresentation. We should live such honest lives that we don't have to worry about our actions being known. Whoever walks in integrity walks securely, but whoever takes crooked paths will be found out. Proverbs 10:9 WEB.
As for your desire to set things straight with K, it's wise to surrender this desire to God. It's not wrong to want things to be clear, but it's also important to trust God's timing and methods. The WEB says, Don't defend yourself when people insult you. Instead, let the Lord defend you like a bodyguard, Isaiah 54:17.
Remember, it's only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. The WEB says, In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. John 16:23.
Let's pray:
Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our dear Awivis. We pray for your clarity and restoration in this situation with K and their mutual friend. Help Awivis to fully surrender this situation to you, trusting in your timing and methods.
We pray that Awivis' heart would be free from anxiety, knowing that you care for them. We ask that you would bless Awivis with your peace that passes all understanding.
We also pray for the mutual friend, that they would be mindful of their words, speaking only what is edifying and true. Help them to understand the value of trust and confidentiality.
If it's your will, Father, we pray for a restored relationship between Awivis and K, built on truth and understanding. We ask that you would guide Awivis, giving them wisdom in their words and actions.
In all things, Father, we ask that you would be glorified. It's in the mighty name of Jesus that we pray. Amen.