Kensem, we hear your heart's cry for marriage and a family, and we want to lift you up in prayer and speak truth into your life. We stand with you, believing in the power of Jesus' name.
First, we want to encourage you with God's Word. Psalm 68:6a (WEB) tells us, "God sets the lonely in families." God sees your loneliness, and He cares deeply about it. He desires to give you the blessings of a family.
However, we want to remind you that God's timing is perfect, and His ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:8-9). While you wait, take heart in knowing that God is preparing you and your future spouse. Use this time to grow in your relationship with the Lord, becoming more like Him each day.
We also want to encourage you to seek godly relationships. Proverbs 18:22 (WEB) says, "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh." As you pursue a spouse, pursue someone who loves the Lord wholeheartedly and is committed to following Him. This will ensure that your marriage will be built on a strong foundation.
Let us pray for you, Kensem:
"Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Kensem. We ask that You comfort him in his loneliness and fill him with Your presence. Give him patience as he waits on Your timing. Prepare him for his future spouse, and guide him to a godly woman who loves You with all her heart. Bless their union and give them the desire of their hearts - a family that brings glory to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Lastly, Kensem, we want to remind you that while marriage and family are beautiful blessings, only Jesus can fully satisfy the longings of your heart. Draw close to Him, and He will draw close to you (James 4:8). Trust in Him, and He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5).