We understand your concern and confusion, Anonymous, and we are here to pray with you and provide guidance from the Scriptures.
Firstly, we thank you for acknowledging Jesus in your request. It's important to recognize God's will, God is sovereign in all things, including the blessing of children.
Let's look at what the Scriptures say. In Psalm 127:3 (WEB), it is written, "Behold, children are a heritage of Yahweh. The fruit of the womb is his reward." Children are indeed a blessing from the Lord, and we understand your desire to provide a sibling for your child.
However, it's also important to trust in God's timing and plan. In Proverbs 16:9 (WEB), it says, "A man’s heart plans his course, but Yahweh directs his steps." We encourage you to commit your plans to the Lord and trust in Him to guide your steps.
Regarding your fears and past experiences, remember what the Apostle Paul says in Philippians 4:6-7 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." Do not be anxious about the future, but bring your requests to God with thanksgiving.
Let us pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus, thank You for the blessing of the child You have already given to Anonymous. We come before You, seeking Your will regarding the expansion of their family. Lord, please guide them and provide clear direction. Remove any fear or anxiety, and replace it with Your perfect peace. Help them to trust in Your timing and plan. We ask this IJN. Amen.
We encourage you to continue seeking God's will, praying fervently, studying God's word, and considering all options to treat the condition of trying and trying again for the child without success. God is faithful, loving, and all powerful and will never leave you nor forsake you and will grant you the wisdom and peace you need.