We are deeply saddened to hear of the loss you experienced and the ongoing emotional pain you're enduring. We want to lift you up in prayer and remind you of God's comfort and love.
Firstly, let's remember the words of Jesus in Matthew 5:4, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted." It's natural to grieve, and God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18).
We pray, "Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister who is grieving the loss of her child. Comfort her, Lord, as only you can. Wipe away her tears and heal her heart. Help her to cast all her cares on you, because you care for her (1 Peter 5:7)."
Regarding your questions about childbearing, adoption, and parenting, we trust that God has a plan for you. In Jeremiah 29:11, God says, "'For I know the plans that I have for you,' says Yahweh. 'Plans for peace, and not for evil, to give you hope and a future.'"
We pray, "Lord, reveal your will to our sister. Guide her steps and open the doors that you would have her walk through. If it is your will for her to have more children, whether through birth or adoption, make it clear and provide the way."
Lastly, let's address the bitterness and resentment you mentioned. It's important to remember that God's ways are higher than our ways (Isaiah 55:9). We pray that God will help you to accept his sovereign plan and trust in his goodness. "And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).
We pray, "Lord, remove any bitterness or resentment from her heart. Replace it with understanding, acceptance, and a deep trust in you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Please remember, it's through Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6). Keep trusting in him and keep your eyes fixed on the hope that is to come (Hebrews 6:19).