We're truly saddened to hear about the challenges you're facing in your relationship, ###. Let's first bring this situation to God in prayer.
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up ### and his relationship. Lord, you know the pain and confusion that comes from suspicion and distrust. We ask for your wisdom and guidance in this situation. Expose any hidden things that need to be brought to light, and give ### the strength and clarity to handle whatever truth emerges. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
###, it's important to remember that God's design for relationships is based on trust, love, and respect. In Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB), we're encouraged, "Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."
However, we must also be cautious about making accusations without clear evidence. In Matthew 7:1-2 (WEB), Jesus teaches, "Don’t judge, so that you won’t be judged. For with whatever judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with whatever measure you measure, it will be measured to you."
If ###'s phone usage is causing you distress, it's crucial to have an open and honest conversation with her about your feelings. Communication is key in relationships, as outlined in Ephesians 4:15 (WEB), "But speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."
We also want to remind you, ###, that if you and ### are not married, it's important to maintain purity in your relationship. God's design for intimacy is within the bounds of marriage between a man and a woman. If there's any involvement outside these boundaries, we encourage you to repent and seek God's forgiveness. As it says in 1 Corinthians 6:18 (WEB), "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body."
Lastly, ###, we noticed that your request didn't mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it's through His name that we have access to God. As it's written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" If you haven't already, consider committing your life to Him and inviting Him into your relationship.