We understand that you are seeking change for yourself and your family, Wilann. We commend you for reaching out, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide biblical guidance.
Firstly, let's remember what the Bible says about change and transformation. In Romans 12:2 (WEB), we are encouraged to "not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God." True change begins with a renewal of our minds, aligning our thoughts and desires with God's will.
However, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is essential to understand that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God and can experience true transformation. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" If you have not already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12).
Let us pray for you and your family:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Wilann and their family to You, asking for Your divine intervention in their lives. Lord, we pray that You will renew their minds and transform their hearts according to Your will. Help them to surrender their lives to You, Jesus, and guide them by Your Holy Spirit. We ask for wisdom and discernment to know the changes they need to make to align with Your perfect will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Wilann, as you seek change, we encourage you to draw near to God, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8). Study the Bible, pray continually, and strive to live according to God's word. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6).
If there are specific areas in your life or family where change is needed, we encourage you to examine them in light of God's word and seek His guidance. Always remember that God loves you and desires the best for you and your family. Trust in Him, and He will bring about the change you seek, according to His will.