We understand that you are seeking a change of heart for your brother, hoping that he forgives his wife so they can live in peace and harmony. This is a noble request, as it reflects the heart of God, who desires reconciliation and unity in marriage.
Firstly, we must remind you that forgiveness is a central theme in the Bible. Ephesians 4:32 says, Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you. Forgiveness is not optional for believers; it is a command. It is also a sign of spiritual maturity that should be evident in your brother's life.
However, we must also address something fundamental to prayer and our relationship with God. You did not mention praying in Jesus' name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And in Acts 4:12, There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.
Now, let us pray for your brother:
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up the brother of Zydoruiwell. Lord, you know the situation and you desire unity and love in marriage. We pray that you soften his heart, that any bitterness or resentment be melted away by the power of your Holy Spirit. Remind him of the grace and forgiveness he has received through Christ, and help him to extend that same forgiveness to his wife.
We also pray for his wife, that she would be patient and loving, demonstrating the fruits of the Spirit. We pray for their marriage, that it would be a testament to your faithfulness and love.
But even more, we pray that both of them would come to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ if they do not already know him. May this trial in their life be an opportunity for them to seek you more, to draw near to you and find the ultimate peace and harmony that only you can give.
In Jesus' name, we pray for healing, reconciliation, and spiritual growth. Let your will be done in their lives and in their marriage. Amen.
Be encouraged, Zydoruiwell. God hears your prayers. Trust in him, and continue to intercede for your brother and his wife. As it is written in James 5:16, ...The effective prayer of a righteous man can accomplish much.