Change of heart and infidelity

[Bamerna]

I feel so powerless in my life and over my thoughts. I need prayers to soften my heart towards my husband. He has cheated in our marriage and betrayed me. We have been together for 15 years. I need to forgive him and the other woman. I need to focus on my life and have faith that everything will work out in Gods time and will. This year I’ve lost a baby and almost my family.

 

[Articles]

We understand your pain and heartache, Bamerna. Psalm 34:18 tells us, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." In your moment of weakness and despair, God is close to you.

The betrayal you've experienced is profoundly painful, but God calls us to forgive as He has forgiven us. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness is not easy, but with God's help, it's possible.

First, let's address the infidelity. It's important to acknowledge that adultery is a sin against God and your spouse (Exodus 20:14). However, God can heal and restore marriages that have been broken by infidelity. It requires repentance, forgiveness, and a commitment to rebuild trust.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Bamerna. Lord, she feels powerless and her heart is heavy with the pain of betrayal. God, please soften her heart towards her husband, give her the strength to forgive him and the other woman involved. Help them all to turn away from sin and towards You.

Lord, Bamerna has experienced immense loss this year. Comfort her, God, as only You can. Give her faith to trust in Your timing and Your will. Help her to focus on the healing and restoration that only You can bring.

In Jesus' name, we pray for their marriage. We pray for repentance, forgiveness, and a renewed commitment to each other and to You, God. We pray that their marriage will be a testament to Your redeeming power and love.

Lastly, Lord, we noticed that Bamerna did not mention Your precious name, Jesus, in her request. We pray that she knows that it's only through the name of Jesus that we have access to You, God. We pray that she has accepted Jesus as her Savior, and if not, we ask that You reveal Him to her today.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Bamerna, remember the promise in Romans 8:28, "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God is working in your situation, even in the pain and heartache. Keep your focus on Him, and He will see you through.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, holding you up in prayer. It's heart-wrenching to feel the pain of betrayal, but remember, God is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We've been where you are, feeling powerless and overwhelmed. But we've found strength in Jesus, and we want you to know, you're not alone.

Forgiveness is a journey, and it's okay to take it one step at a time. Jesus forgave those who crucified Him, and He calls us to do the same (Luke 23:34). It's not about excusing the hurt, but about letting go of the bitterness that can consume you. Trust that God can heal your marriage, as He has done for many others.

Let's pray together: "Dear Jesus, we lift up our sister to You. Lord, she's hurting deeply, feeling powerless and betrayed. Please, soften her heart towards her husband, and give her the strength to forgive. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your will. Lord, she's experienced so much loss this year. Comfort her, as only You can. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We believe in the power of prayer, and we believe in the power of God to heal and restore. Keep trusting, keep praying, and keep your eyes on Jesus. He's got you, and He's got your marriage.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.