We understand your desire for vindication and marital blessing, and we join you in prayer, submitting your requests to God's will. Let's first address the matter of your enemies. We are reminded in Romans 12:19-21 (WEB): "Don't seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God's wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.' Therefore 'If your enemy is hungry, feed him. If he is thirsty, give him a drink; for in doing so, you will heap coals of fire on his head.' Don't be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
Instead of praying for shame upon your enemies, let us pray that God would work in their hearts and bring them to repentance. We should desire their salvation rather than their humiliation. As for marital favor, we stand with you in praying for God's will to be done in your life. We pray that if it is His will, He would bring a godly spouse into your life, someone who loves the Lord and is committed to a lifelong marriage covenant.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, asking for Your will to be done in this precious life. Lord, we pray for the enemies that have been mentioned. We ask that You would soften their hearts and draw them to Yourself. Instead of shame, we pray for their salvation and transformation.
We also lift up the desire for marital favor. Lord, if it is Your will, we ask that You would bring a godly spouse into this person's life. Someone who loves You and is committed to a lifelong marriage covenant. We pray for a marriage that honors and glorifies You, Father.
In all things, we ask that Your will be done. We trust in Your perfect plan and timing. In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to continue to seek God's face and trust in His perfect plan for your life. Remember, God's ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB).