Ceccolin Andrea Davide 22.08.1985 Help me restore the relation with my Girl . I want to Marry her ...her name Tofan Teodora Aneta 04 01 1985
There is a lot you can do to mend a broken relationship. First, though, both you and the other person need to be willing to work toward healing. Memories of whatever broke the relationship such as conflict, hurtful words, or harmful actions may be discouraging you all from forgiving each other and trying to reconcile. But keep in mind that
God offers you an unlimited supply of love that can help you reconnect and build a better relationship. Choose to be hopeful about what the future holds for you both, with Godโs help.
The best way to start the
healing process is through prayer. Begin by
praying for God to open your hearts and minds to new possibilities for your relationship. Although God will never force either one of you to work on mending your broken relationship, he will provide encouragement to do so. Pray that God will help you both see your broken relationship from his perspective, so you all can see that there is hope for healing it. From there, work on forgiveness. Be willing to forgive yourself for the mistakes you made in the relationship, and to forgive the other person for the mistakes that he or she made. God calls everyone to forgive as he has forgiven us. Ephesians 4:32 encourages you to, โBe kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.โ Colossians 3:13 urges you to, โBear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.โ Forgiveness isnโt just a recommendation; itโs a command. Failing to forgive is a sin that hurts you, the other person, and God. Donโt wait until you feel like forgiving, because you likely will never feel like doing so. But you donโt have to forgive from your own power. God is ready to help you through the forgiveness process. It is Godโs love flowing through you that empowers you to forgive. So, in order to forgive, you must welcome Godโs love into your life by intentionally choosing it. You need to be willing to move away from grudges, bitterness, anger, revenge, and all else that stands in opposition to Godโs love no matter what happened with your broken relationship in the past. While choosing love when youโve been hurt can be challenging, itโs always worthwhile to do so. The benefits of choosing love thru Christ does include more happiness, less anxiety, a stronger ability to manage stress, and a greater capacity to experience life with Christ at the CENTER!!! Another key step you can take to mend your broken relationship is to figure out, and commit to, a plan for positive change in that relationship. Consider what went wrong before in the relationship. Get to the root of the problem that caused the "issue" in your relationship.
Then ask God to guide you with the wisdom you need to come up with a plan to solve that problem. Rather than focusing on what the other person can do which you canโt control focus only on what
you can do to help make positive change happen. What is your part in the solution? How can you reset boundaries, change your own behavior, and rebuild trust? Once youโve clarified that, you can take action and see if the other person is willing to join you in working to heal the relationship. If so, the two of you can start to work on positive change together and with others (such as Christian counselors) who can support you both.
God certainly can restore a broken relationship. Genesis 18:14 asks: โIs anything too hard for the Lord?โ While it may be too hard for you to restore a broken relationship on your own,
itโs not too hard for God to do so. As Jesus declares in Matthew 19:26, โโฆ with God all things are possibleโ and in Mark 10:27, โโฆ all things are possible with God.โ God has the power to do anything โ even what goes beyond your ability imagine. Ephesians 3:20 assures you that God โโฆ is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us.โ However, just because God
can restore a broken relationship doesnโt mean that he
will do so. God cares deeply about all relationships because โGod is loveโ (1 John 4:8). While God joins you in your desire to heal a broken relationship, he also will not force the other person join you in that healing work, because that would violate the other personโs free will. Our loving God respects our free will, even though he grieves broken relationships. So, if the other person in your broken relationship is not willing to restore a relationship with you, you must let that relationship go rather than trying to convince God to restore it for you. Itโs not spiritually or emotionally healthy for you to try to force a relationship reconciliation when the other person doesnโt choose that.
You can count on God to be there for you, helping you grieve your lost relationship, and sending you the peace and love you need to move on. If the other person does decide to work with you to restore your broken relationship, though, the two of you can rely on God to guide you with the wisdom you need to learn lessons from the past, reconcile, and build a stronger relationship than before. Jesus promises in Matthew 18:20 that where two or more people gather in his name, he will be there. โGod is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in troubleโ Psalm 46:1 assures you, as well.
A Healing Prayer for a Broken Relationship
Feel free to personalize this prayer for a broken relationship when you talk with God about the specific relationship you like to heal:
โDear God, thank you for always being here for me, ready to listen with love. Iโm coming to you in pain because of the broken relationship between [person] and me. God, I miss [person] and hope we can heal our relationship. You know the problems that led to the break in our relationship, and you know how to solve them. Please help us both see our relationship from your perspective, so we can see the hope you offer for healing it. Open our hearts and minds to the possibilities that exist for a new and better relationship between us. I do ask for reconciliation to happen in our relationship. However, if [person] isnโt willing to work with me on mending our relationship, please give me the peace I need to move on. If [person] does decide to heal our relationship, please guide us to the best plan for healing together. Either way, I choose to forgive myself for the mistakes I made that contributed to the relationship breaking, and I choose to forgive [person] for [his or her] mistakes. I give my pain to you and trust you to heal me, God. Please let your love flow through my life, no matter what. In Jesusโ name, Amen.โ
God bless you...