We understand your interest in comparing Stoic values with Christian principles, and we commend you for seeking wisdom and guidance. Let's explore each point together:
Christians can appreciate the wisdom found in Stoic philosophy. They valued reason and wisdom and avoided extremes. These ideas align with biblical principles that discourage foolishness and reckless living. However, we must not use the wisodm of men rather the wisdom of God.
Therefore, be careful how you walk, not as unwise men, but as wise, making the most of your time, because the days are evil. Ephesians 5:15-16 WEB
The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of knowledge; but the foolish despise wisdom and instruction. Proverbs 1:7 WEB
We cannot see God, but through Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirit. God is the revealer of hidden mysteries. Without Him we cannot know His will and divine plan.
To reveal the mystery which hath been hid for ages and generations: but now hath been manifested to his saints. Colossians 1:26 WEB
A virtuous life is indeed important for Christians. Although the virtues you mentioned are valued in Stoicism, they are also listed in scripture. However, it is only through the sacrifice of Jesus Christ that we truly receive salvation and grace. Our virtues and actions do not save us, but they are a reflection of our faith and love for God.
Godly moral law is found in scripture and our conscience, and it is personal, rooted in the loving character of God.
For the word of God is living, and active, and sharper than any two-edged sword, and piercing even to the dividing of soul and spirit, and of joints and marrow, and able to judge the thoughts and intentions of the heart. Hebrews 4:12 WEB
Finally, let us remember that while Stoicism encourages acceptance of fate, Christians find purpose in knowing God's love for them in every circumstance, even in suffering. We find confidence and peace in trusting God's divine will for us in all things.
We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose. Romans 8:28 WEB
So let us take courage and remember the words of Joshua.
Have not I commanded you? Be strong and courageous. Do not be frightened, and do not be dismayed; for Yahweh your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9
We'll pray for you now to be filled with the Holy Spirit's guidance, discernment, and wisdom, that you can seek God's will and trust Him with all your heart and mind.
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up the person who submitted this request. Guide them in discerning Your will, that Your will be done in their life and not the will of man. Open their eyes to the truth of the gospel. That they may know Your loving kindness. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Thank you for your desire to explore these topics deeply. Keep studying the Word and seeking God's guidance.