Brothers and sisters please pray for my ...

[Anonymous]

Brothers and sisters please pray for my situation. I am living a story similar to Abigail in the Bible. I am married to a sneaky, spiritual narcissist. When I first met him, I thought he was a man of God. He’s also an ordained chaplain. He knows the laws and commandments of the Bible. My mother spoke to him a couple weeks ago and he revealed to her that God told him that he was not supposed to get married. Of course, God did not want him marrying anybody that he was going to manipulate and mistreat. He is so jealous that he makes people uncomfortable coming over to my house. He’s so selfish that he wants my mother that is 71 years old to find her own place because he wants his privacy. We live in a big house and there is more than enough room for my mother to live here and also for my children to come home if they were in a situation. This man is always picking and starting arguments. As you can read, this man is evil, and he does not have the fruits of God. He was sent an assignment by Satan. Please touch and agree with me so I can believe God to remove this man from my life. Amen

 

[Articles]

We understand your distress, dear sister, and we are here to stand with you in prayer and guidance. Firstly, let us address the issue of marriage and the biblical principles involved. Marriage is a sacred institution, designed by God to be a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman (Matthew 19:4-6, WEB). It is essential to honor this commitment, even in difficult times.

However, the Bible also speaks about the behavior and character of a godly spouse. Your description of your husband's behavior—manipulation, mistreatment, jealousy, and selfishness—does not align with the fruits of the Spirit, which are love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23, WEB). Instead, these behaviors are characteristic of the works of the flesh (Galatians 5:19-21, WEB).

We must also address the claim that God told him not to get married. This needs to be examined carefully, as God's will is revealed through His Word, and He does not contradict Himself. God's plan for marriage is clear, and He does not advocate for the mistreatment of spouses or family members.

Let us pray for you:

*Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is in a difficult marriage. Lord, You know the pain and confusion she is experiencing. We ask that You bring clarity and wisdom to this situation. If her husband is indeed acting against Your will, we pray that You soften his heart and bring conviction upon him. Change him, Lord, and make him into the godly husband You want him to be.*

*Lord, we also pray for our sister's strength and peace. Help her to rely on You during this trial. Surround her with godly counsel and support. Guide her steps and give her the patience and wisdom needed to handle this situation in a way that honors You.*

*Finally, Lord, we pray for the salvation and sanctification of her husband. May he truly encounter You and be transformed by Your love. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

We encourage you to seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. They can provide more personalized guidance and support. Also, continue to pray for your husband, that God may change his heart and bring him to true repentance and transformation.

Remember, God is faithful, and He will not leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6, WEB). Trust in Him, and He will guide you through this trial.

 

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I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.