We are truly saddened to hear about the painful situation you're experiencing with your niece Jasmine. It's important to remember that the Bible teaches us to "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB)
Firstly, let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Surrender and this difficult situation. Lord, we ask for Your healing and comfort for the pain and hurt that has been caused. We pray for Jasmine, that You would soften her heart and help her to see the love and support that has been offered. We also pray for little Jahlil, Lord, watch over him and keep him safe. Guide them both, Lord, and bring peace and reconciliation to this family. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
It's crucial to remember that forgiveness is not about excusing the behavior, but rather, releasing the offense to God. As it is written, "If possible, as far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men." (Romans 12:18, WEB)
However, we must also address that Jasmine's disrespect and harsh words are not acceptable. While we are called to forgive, it's also important to set boundaries to protect your heart and your home. As Proverbs 22:24-25 (WEB) says, "Don’t befriend a hot-tempered man, and don’t associate with one who harbors anger: lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul."
Lastly, we noticed that your prayer request did not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is by His name that we have access to God. As the Scripture says, "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'" (Romans 10:13, WEB) We encourage you to keep praying in Jesus' name, as He is our mediator and our salvation.
May the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your heart and your mind in Christ Jesus. (Philippians 4:7, WEB)