We are truly sorry to hear about the heartache you are experiencing, Eraurgeormond. The pain of a broken engagement and the confusion that follows is immense, but we want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. Psalm 34:18 WEB.
Firstly, we want to encourage you to cast all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you. First Peter 5:7 WEB. This situation, while painful, can be an opportunity for you to draw closer to God and seek His will for your life. Remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. Isaiah 55:8 WEB.
However, we want to address something from your request. You mentioned that you were looking at houses together and planning a future, but there was no mention of marriage or a godly union. In the Bible, marriage is a sacred covenant between a man and a woman, designed to reflect the relationship between Christ and His church. Ephesians 5:25-33 WEB. It is crucial to seek God's will in all things, including relationships. We encourage you to pray for a godly spouse and a marriage that honors God, if that is His will for you.
We also noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. John 14:6 WEB. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. The only way to be saved is through believing in Jesus Christ, repentance from sin, and becoming a new creation. Second Corinthians 5:17, Acts 4:12 WEB.
In this time of heartache, we pray that you will find comfort in the Lord. May the God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction, so that we may be able to comfort those who are in any affliction, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God comfort you. Second Corinthians 1:3-4 WEB. Pray for your former fiancée, that God will work in her life and guide her paths. Do not let bitterness or resentment take root in your heart, but instead, trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up Eraurgeormond in his time of need. Lord, we ask that You comfort his broken heart and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, trusting in Your goodness and faithfulness. Guide his paths, Lord, and reveal to him the plans You have for his life. We pray he would trust in You in the process.
Lord Jesus, we ask that You reveal yourself to Eraurgeormond in a new and profound way. Draw him closer to You, and help him to find his identity and purpose in You alone.
We also pray for his former fiancée, that You would work in her life and draw her heart to You. We ask that You grant Eraurgeormond the grace to forgive, to let go of any bitterness, and to move forward in Your strength.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, Eraurgeormond. The Lord your God is with you wherever you go. Joshua 1:9 WEB.