We understand your concern and heartache for your daughter and her situation. Let's bring this before the Lord together, seeking His will and guidance in this difficult time.
Firstly, we must remember that God's ways are higher than ours, and His thoughts higher than our thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9, WEB). While it might seem that God has shown your daughter that she and her ex are meant to be together, we must also test the spirits to see if they are from God (1 John 4:1, WEB). Sometimes, our own desires can influence what we perceive as God's will.
It's crucial to encourage your daughter to seek God's face in this time of waiting. Psalm 27:14 reminds us to "Wait for Yahweh. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for Yahweh." This time can be used to draw closer to God, trusting that He has the best plan for her life.
However, we must also address the anger and heartbreak she's experiencing. Ephesians 4:26-27 tells us, "Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil." It's important for her to deal with her anger in a godly way, forgiving her ex for the hurt he has caused, just as Christ forgave us (Ephesians 4:32).
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up our sister and her ex. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Please comfort her heart, Lord, and help her to cast all her cares upon You, for You care for her (1 Peter 5:7). Help her to use this time to draw closer to You, growing in Your grace and knowledge. We also pray for her ex, Lord. We ask that You soften his heart and help him to act in a way that honors You. If it is Your will for them to be together, Lord, we ask that You make a way. But above all, we pray that Your will be done in their lives. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we notice that Jesus' name was not mentioned in your request. We believe that it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God (John 14:6). There is power in the name of Jesus, and it is by His stripes that we are healed (Acts 4:12, 1 Peter 2:24). We encourage you to always approach God's throne of grace with confidence in Jesus' name (Hebrews 4:16).