We are truly saddened to hear about the pain and heartache you've experienced due to the unfaithfulness and deceit of your former boyfriend. Firstly, we want to remind you of God's love and care for you, as His child. Psalm 147:3 tells us, "He heals the broken in heart, and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is near to you in this time of hurt.
However, we must address the underlying issues in your relationship. The behavior of your former boyfriend is not only hurtful but also clearly against biblical principles. Sexual immorality, including adultery, is strongly condemned in the Bible. Hebrews 13:4 states, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled, for God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterous." His actions are not aligned with God's will, and continuing in such a relationship is not healthy or godly.
We also want to remind you that forgiveness is a powerful act, but it does not mean you should continue to subject yourself to harm. While you have shown remarkable forgiveness, it is crucial to establish boundaries to protect your heart and well-being. Proverbs 4:23 advises, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life."
Moreover, we noticed that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is essential to understand that it is only through Jesus that we have access to God. John 14:6 says, "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'" We encourage you to seek God through Jesus Christ, who is our mediator and savior.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is going through immense pain and heartache. Lord, we ask that You heal her broken heart and bind up her wounds. Give her the strength to forgive and let go of the hurt caused by her former boyfriend's unfaithfulness. Guide her steps and help her to make wise decisions that align with Your will. Surround her with godly friends and family who will support and encourage her in this difficult time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to stay strong in the Lord and seek His will for your life. Trust that God has a better future for you, and He will guide you to a godly relationship that honors Him.