Shermarie
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Quick Update: On August 28th- I told him he was losing me because of his relationship with Dawn Marie and told him Good bye. He did try and talk to me afterwards. This past three weekends he didn't see her at all. He's been spending more time with me. I am hopeful that the prayers are starting to work. Please continue to pray. He seems to be trying to redeem himself but we haven't talked about his relationship with Dawn Marie yet. There is still some distance and awakaradness between us that needs to be worked on. It is getting somewhat better but it still something that needs Gods help with.
I believe that Francisco is suffering from Affairs fog “Wayward fog”. “ It means--- The term “affair fog” is often used by experts and affair victims to describe the euphoria that someone involved in an affair feels. Think of how good you felt when you first fell in love. During this period, the cheater will often rationalize their actions in order to minimize their feelings of guilt — often to the extent that they “invent” reasons for having the affair in the first place. Healing from infidelity is impossible while one is in this fog. An affair fog is nothing more than a fantasy created by the affair partners. All the wonderful qualities each partner possesses are without flaws, weaknesses or selfishness. The affair partners are under the influence of an addictive drug similar to a teenager in love, and unfortunately it is very difficult to remove them from this fog. It’s a chemical imbalance in the brain. His whole character which fits the wayward fog to a T. He has completely changed since he started the friend with benefits relationship with Dawn Marie. And it is sexual.And it’s not good. It is really taking a toll on him and it’s very noticeable and he looks very sad all the time and you can hear it in his voice and he has become someone I don't recognize anymore. The only way for this relationship to end is for God to removed the foggy mindset from him so that he can clearly think and rationalize and realize what he’s been doing. I am asking that God will remove that fog/ Infatuation he has for her and force his eyes open so that he can realize and rationalize what he has been doing with Dawn Marie is wrong and it needs to stop. I am really worried about him and want my old Francisco back. I really miss the old Francisco and I am want him back. He needs a wake up all from God. With God all things are possible and once this fog is lifted he will be thinking more clearly he will realize she wasn’t what he wanted it was me. I need a miracle to happen and to happen fast.
There is some background- as I was a very close to the family and took care of his wife before she died of cancer. I was the one who he leaned on and helped him picked up the pieces after she died and helped him with his home ( he works as a truck driver at night and was always gone) and did everything for him. We were there for each other. That's how our relationship developed and we become very close and told each other everything so this whole situation with Dawn Marie has really shocked me and others because of it. Even now- when I told him I was walking away because he hasn't ended things with her- hes trying to make excuses to see me. Its been hard because I truly love him.
I believe that Francisco is suffering from Affairs fog “Wayward fog”. “ It means--- The term “affair fog” is often used by experts and affair victims to describe the euphoria that someone involved in an affair feels. Think of how good you felt when you first fell in love. During this period, the cheater will often rationalize their actions in order to minimize their feelings of guilt — often to the extent that they “invent” reasons for having the affair in the first place. Healing from infidelity is impossible while one is in this fog. An affair fog is nothing more than a fantasy created by the affair partners. All the wonderful qualities each partner possesses are without flaws, weaknesses or selfishness. The affair partners are under the influence of an addictive drug similar to a teenager in love, and unfortunately it is very difficult to remove them from this fog. It’s a chemical imbalance in the brain. His whole character which fits the wayward fog to a T. He has completely changed since he started the friend with benefits relationship with Dawn Marie. And it is sexual.And it’s not good. It is really taking a toll on him and it’s very noticeable and he looks very sad all the time and you can hear it in his voice and he has become someone I don't recognize anymore. The only way for this relationship to end is for God to removed the foggy mindset from him so that he can clearly think and rationalize and realize what he’s been doing. I am asking that God will remove that fog/ Infatuation he has for her and force his eyes open so that he can realize and rationalize what he has been doing with Dawn Marie is wrong and it needs to stop. I am really worried about him and want my old Francisco back. I really miss the old Francisco and I am want him back. He needs a wake up all from God. With God all things are possible and once this fog is lifted he will be thinking more clearly he will realize she wasn’t what he wanted it was me. I need a miracle to happen and to happen fast.
There is some background- as I was a very close to the family and took care of his wife before she died of cancer. I was the one who he leaned on and helped him picked up the pieces after she died and helped him with his home ( he works as a truck driver at night and was always gone) and did everything for him. We were there for each other. That's how our relationship developed and we become very close and told each other everything so this whole situation with Dawn Marie has really shocked me and others because of it. Even now- when I told him I was walking away because he hasn't ended things with her- hes trying to make excuses to see me. Its been hard because I truly love him.
