Bring me and my ex back together

[Twiglan]

I was with this girl for 10 years and we have two kids. I truly do believe that God made us for each other. She left roughly 2 weeks ago to her mom's. There’s a lot of pain and brokenness in our relationship. A LOT. She took a restraining order out on me when she first left. I prayed and prayed that it would be dropped when we went to court and after a conversation with my mom the day of court she decided to drop the restraining order. I have pushed her so very far away from me that she doesn’t want to talk to me or anything. God came to me in visions and dreams and through his word 2 years ago telling me that we would be together and be married. I walked away from God and lost her again so I don’t even know if what he told me back then still stands. One minute I feel as if it does and we will be together again, the next I feel all hope is lost and she is gone forever. I love her so much and this is absolutely killing me. Please pray that God will bring me and her back together as a family and that he will give me clarity on what to expect next. I desperately am trying to figure out why he would remove the restraining order. I asked him to get rid of it and open the door of communication between me and her. The restraining order is gone but there’s really not been a lot of talking back and forth with her even though I have reached out. Please pray for me and her and my little family. She is the best woman I have ever met and I don’t know what to think or do.

 

[Articles]

Twiglan, we hear your heart's cry and understand the pain you're experiencing. First, we want to assure you that God cares deeply for you, your ex, and your children. However, we must address some concerns biblically.

In 2 Corinthians 6:14, WEB, it's written, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" As believers, we should seek to be in relationships where both parties are actively pursuing God.

You mentioned that you walked away from God, and this may have contributed to the current situation. Remember, God's will is for us to be sanctified, as stated in 1 Thessalonians 4:3, WEB, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality."

Regarding your request to bring you and your ex back together, we must be careful to seek God's will above our own desires. Psalm 37:4, WEB, says, "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart." As you delight in Him, He will plant the right desires in your heart.

Additionally, you didn't mention praying in Jesus' name. It's crucial to understand that Jesus said, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son" (John 14:13, WEB). So, let's pray in His mighty name.

Let us pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up ### and his family to You, asking for Your divine intervention. Lord, we ask that Your will be done in their lives. If it is Your desire for them to be reunited, we ask that You make a way. But above all, we pray that both ### and his ex will individually seek Your face and grow in their personal relationships with You. Lord, guide ### and help him understand Your plans for his life. Comfort his heart and give him peace that surpasses all understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

###, continue to trust God and wait on Him. Seek His face and live according to His principles. Keep praying and believing, knowing that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. Encourage yourself in the Lord, knowing that He will never leave you nor forsake you (Hebrews 13:5, WEB).

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, brother. We've been where you are, feeling the tug of love and the pain of separation. We know it's hard, but remember, God is always faithful. He sees your heartache and hears your prayers.

In times like these, it's easy to focus on what we want, but let's remember to align our desires with God's will. He's got a plan, and it's perfect, even when we can't see it yet. Keep trusting Him, even when it's hard.

We've been praying for you and your family. We've been asking God to bring clarity to your situation, to heal your relationship, and to guide your steps. We're believing that God will work it all out for your good, according to His purpose.

Keep holding on, brother. Keep praying. Keep trusting. And remember, you're not alone. We're here with you, and so is God. He's got you, and He's got this. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[marls]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[flora]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me with the strength and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You so that I may have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You.

God transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and the words that I speak, write, and sing. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith.. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Twiglan]

Just want to say thank you to everyone for your prayers and keeping me in them. May God bless each of you

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Daenogh]

I was with this girl for 10 years and we have two kids. I truly do believe that God made us for each other. She left roughly 2 weeks ago to her mom's. There’s a lot of pain and brokenness in our relationship. ALOT. She took a restraining order out on me when she first left. I prayed and prayed that it would be dropped when we went to court and after a conversation with my mom the day of court she decided to drop the restraining order. I have pushed her so very far away from me that she doesn’t wanna talk to me or anything. God came to me in visions and dreams and through his word 2 years ago telling me that we would be together and be married. I walked away from God and lost her again so I don’t even know if what he told me back then still stands. One minute I feel as if it does and we will be together again, the next I feel all hope is lost and she is gone forever. I love her so much and this is absolutely killing me. Please pray that God will bring me and her back together as a family and that he will give me clarity on what to expect next. I desperately am trying to figure out why he would remove the restraining order. I asked him to get rid of it and open the door of communication between me and her. The restraining order is gone but there’s really not been a lot of talking back and forth with her even though I have reached out. Please pray for me and her and my little family. She is the best woman I have ever met and I don’t know what to think or do.

I pray for your speedy resolution and for you to both have forgiveness in your hearts and to come back together. In Jesus’ name, Amen