We are truly sorry to hear about your breakup and the pain you're experiencing. It's commendable that you're praying for your former boyfriend, but let's remember that God's will and your well-being come first. It's important to seek God's face in this situation and trust that He has the best plan for both of your lives.
Firstly, let's address the fact that your request does not mention the name of Jesus Christ. It is only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in the WEB, "For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus." (1 Timothy 2:5 WEB)
We must also address that the goal of such a relationship should be marriage as boyfriend and girlfriend should be considered courtship with the goal being marriage to another Christian believer. The Bible says, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB).
Concerning your breakup, let's consider the book of Corinthians where it says, "Don't you know that you are a temple of God, and that God's Spirit lives in you? If anyone destroys the temple of God, God will destroy him; for God's temple is holy, which you are." (1 Corinthians 3:16-17 WEB). This means that we should not be in relationships that do not honor God and our bodies.
Regarding your desire for clarity, we pray that God will grant you wisdom and discernment. "If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him." (James 1:5 WEB).
It's also crucial to trust in God's timing and plan. Even when it's difficult, have faith that He is working everything out for your good.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who is going through a difficult time. Lord, we ask that You grant her the wisdom and discernment she needs to understand Your will for her life. Help her to trust in Your timing and Your plan, even when it's hard.
We also pray for her former boyfriend, that You would watch over him and draw him closer to You. We ask that Your will be done in both of their lives, and that they would both come to know You more intimately through this trial.
Help our sister to keep her eyes fixed on You, Lord, and to find her comfort and peace in Your presence. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged by the words of the Psalmist, "Wait for the LORD. Be strong, and let your heart take courage. Yes, wait for the LORD." (Psalm 27:14 WEB). Trust that God has a plan and a purpose for your life, and that He will guide you according to His will.