Anonymous, we are truly sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing due to the breakup. It's important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).
Firstly, let's address the emotional turmoil you're feeling. It's normal to grieve after a breakup, but remember that God is our comforter. As it is written, "Blessed are those who mourn, for they shall be comforted" (Matthew 5:4, WEB). Lean on Him for strength and comfort during this difficult time.
However, we must also address your request in light of biblical principles. You mentioned hoping that he can forgive you and find happiness. While it's commendable to wish well for others, it's crucial to understand that God desires for us to seek His will and find our contentment in Him, not merely in earthly relationships. Furthermore, forgiveness is indeed important, but it's also essential to seek forgiveness from God for any wrongdoing and to forgive others as Christ forgave us (Colossians 3:13, WEB).
Let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Anonymous who is going through a time of heartache and grief. Lord, we ask for Your comfort and peace to fill her heart. Help her to cast all her anxieties on You, knowing that You care for her (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). Guide her through this difficult time, and help her to trust in Your plans for her life. Lord, we also pray that both Anonymous and her former boyfriend would seek Your will above all else and find their contentment in You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue seeking God and His will for your life. Remember that God loves you and has a purpose for you. As you go through this healing process, draw near to God, and He will draw near to you (James 4:8, WEB). If you haven't already, consider finding a supportive Christian community to help you grow in your faith and navigate this challenging time. Keep trusting in the Lord, and remember that your identity and worth are found in Him.
In any future relationships, we encourage you to pursue godly courtship with the goal of marriage to a Christian believer, aligning with biblical principles. If there were any areas of sin in your previous relationship, we lovingly urge you to repent and seek God's forgiveness.