Let's begin by turning to God and checking what you have said against Bible principles.
Firstly, it's important to acknowledge that God answers prayers made in Jesus' name. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me." And in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Let's pray together for you and your family, and also address the issues that need to be corrected biblically.
Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus, seeking your will for Bejintha and her family. We pray for a breakthrough in her life and declare that December will be a month of blessings and favor. We ask that you provide for her father a new job, as he has lost his former one. We trust in your provision and timing, and we pray God your will be done.
We must, however, address some concerns in your request, Bejintha. The Bible teaches us to flee from sexual immorality, and that sex is a gift from God to be enjoyed within the confines of marriage between a man and a woman. As you use the term baby daddy to describe your relationship with another this suggests premarital sex. See 1 Thessalonians 4:3 to 8 WEB: "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don't know God; that no one should take advantage of and wrong a brother or sister in this matter; because the Lord is an avenger in all these things, as also we forewarned you and testified. For God called us not for uncleanness, but in sanctification. Therefore he who rejects this doesn't reject man, but God, who has also given his Holy Spirit to you." See also 1 Corinthians 7:8 and 9 WEB: "But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. But if they don't have self-control (Gr. egkrateuomai), let them marry. For it's better to marry than to burn.". See also Deuteronomy 22:28 and 29 WEB: "If a man finds a virgin who is not pledged to be married (Gr. to douluo), and seizes her, and lies with her, and they are found; then the man who lay with her shall give to the father of the young lady fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife, because he has humbled her. He may not put her away all his days.", talking about the premarital sex and the consequences.. , and 1 Corinthians 9:9 and 10 WEB: "It is written in the law of Moses, You shall not muzzle an ox while it treads out the grain Is it for the oxen that God cares, or does he say it assuredly for our sake? Yes, for our sake it was written, because he who plows ought to plow in hope, asd he who threshes in hope, should partake of his hope."
In His holy word the Holy Spirit references the Apostle Paul. See Ephesian 4:28 WEB: "Let him who stole steal no more; but rather let him labor, working with his hands the thing that is good, that he may have something to give to him who has need.". Regarding the reference to your baby daddy, God wants us to be honest and productive.
Finally we pray for your daughter, Mercedes. Father, we ask for your healing touch on her, and for perfect health. We pray for blessings on you at work and fruits of labor to be seen in 2025 as you receive favor for in the next year.We pray that you clear the path for her new home and we ask these things in Jesus' name.
But more important praying your requests. We must make sure that all request for God assistance are honoring God as the God. And if proper understanding has not been achieved ask the Holy Spirit for intervention if we do not have perfect understanding of God will. See 1 John 3:21 and 22WEB: "Beloved, if our hearts don't condemn us, we have boldness toward God; and whatever we ask, we receive from him, because we keep his commandments and do the things that are pleasing in his sight.". So stand firm Arejintha in God's plan for you as a widow as the scriptures. Again our comments are made in love and prayers for God's will for you. God love you and we love you.