Breaking up and having a hard time seeking God in my relationship

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of two years has not been great to me, he has his days, highs and lows. As does everyone, but he takes his anger out on me, and blames me for things that I didn’t even do. He makes me feel disrespected and unloved at times. Which in turn makes me the same way, because I don’t feel loved, I then get cranky at him. Lately I haven’t been emotionally stable, he’s been going through an hard time (so I’ve been doing my best to support him- and he had as well before), and he has been making my mind much much worse. When I proposed a break to get closer to God, and to help myself, as well as him work on the things that he needs to, I stayed as rational and calm as possible, I wanted it to be a clean small one week break where we can grow for each other. While he made it very messy, and one of his friends got involved without him knowing. It is not my boyfriend’s fault (but the things said to me- most would have broken up then and there). He is an amazing person, who has grown a lot. But I cannot handle his emotions and mine at the same time. I ask for forgiveness, for guidance, and for a prayer to allow me to know if taking a break is the right way, or completely cutting off ties. I know if it is meant to be, then he will become a better person for me and come back into my life. As I am trying to do for him. I want to be closer to Jesus Christ, All I want is to be closer to God. And in the past two years, I’ve only gotten further away.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and seeking God's will is the right path. Let's pray and seek guidance together.

Firstly, we want to remind you of 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" While your boyfriend might have amazing qualities, his actions, and the turmoil you're experiencing, should not be overlooked. It's crucial to be in a relationship that draws you closer to God, not farther away.

Regarding the situation, we read in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." However, forgiveness does not mean accepting mistreatment. You should not have to bear the burden of his emotions and be made to feel unloved or disrespected.

You've proposed a break to grow closer to God, which is commendable. In James 4:8, it is written, "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you." This is a promise you can hold onto.

However, the fact that your boyfriend made the situation messy and his friend got involved raises concerns. A relationship should be built on mutual respect, trust, and communication, reflecting the love of Christ.

Let us pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for forgiveness, guidance, and wisdom for our dear sister. Lord, she feels unloved and disrespected, and her emotional stability has been compromised. Please, Lord, heal her heart and guide her steps. Help her to draw closer to you during this challenging time. Give her the wisdom to know whether to take a break or to end the relationship. Help her boyfriend to see the light of Christ and understand the damage his actions have caused. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Remember, God loves you and wants the best for you. He wants you to be with someone who will love and respect you, and most importantly, draw you closer to Him. It's essential to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles, with the ultimate goal being a godly marriage.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will. Romans 12:2 tells us, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God." Keep praying, keep seeking, and God will direct your paths.

 

[Anonymous]

We understand that you're going through a challenging time in your relationship and seeking God's will is the right path. Let's pray and seek guidance together.

Firstly, we want to remind you of 2 Corinthians 6:14, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" While your boyfriend might have amazing qualities, his actions, and the turmoil you're experiencing, should not be overlooked. It's crucial to be in a relationship that draws you closer to God, not farther away.

Regarding the situation, we read in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." However, forgiveness does not mean accepting mistreatment. You should not have to bear the burden of his emotions and be made to feel unloved or disrespected.

You've proposed a break to grow closer to God, which is commendable. In James 4:8, it is written, "Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you." This is a promise you can hold onto.

However, the fact that your boyfriend made the situation messy and his friend got involved raises concerns. A relationship should be built on mutual respect, trust, and communication, reflecting the love of Christ.

Let us pray:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, asking for forgiveness, guidance, and wisdom for our dear sister. Lord, she feels unloved and disrespected, and her emotional stability has been compromised. Please, Lord, heal her heart and guide her steps. Help her to draw closer to you during this challenging time. Give her the wisdom to know whether to take a break or to end the relationship. Help her boyfriend to see the light of Christ and understand the damage his actions have caused. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Remember, God loves you and wants the best for you. He wants you to be with someone who will love and respect you, and most importantly, draw you closer to Him. It's essential to pursue relationships that align with biblical principles, with the ultimate goal being a godly marriage.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep seeking God's will. Romans 12:2 tells us, "Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God." Keep praying, keep seeking, and God will direct your paths.

Thank you so much, I really appreciate your wisdom. I pray that you have an amazing day!

 

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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