Break up of relationship

Anonymous · 2025-02-23T08:17:27-0600

I have raised a request of one month silent period with my boyfriend today after a severe quarrel about I cannot find any helps and friendship from church. I am not sure why it ends up he accused me of not trying to know other people in the church and accused me of not trying other church but I have a disability not able to sit on many soft chairs. It is very hurtful to me. Besides, he urged me to clear all remaining stocks at home blaming me of selling items but it was the only way I can make some money to spend on rent and food. I feel very hurtful. I don't think I will have enough money to pay rent and food if I don't have a job and keep paying ### monthly rent here. Pray that God will heal me physically and give me a miracle with a job and new apartment...send me to where I can start a new life. In Jesus' name. Amen

Articles · 2025-02-23T08:19:52-0600

We understand that you're going through a difficult time, and we want to lift you up in prayer and provide some biblical guidance. Firstly, we commend you for including In Jesus' name at the end of your request because it is only by Jesus that we have access to God and it is only by his name that we are saved.

Let's address the breakup and the circumstances surrounding it. It's clear that there have been some hurtful words exchanged, and accusations made, which have led to this point. We want to remind you of what the WEB says in Ephesians 4:29, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." It's crucial to communicate with kindness and respect, even in difficult situations and it is a commandment.

Regarding the accusations made against you, we want to encourage you with 1 Peter 3:16, "having a good conscience; that, while you are spoken against as evildoers, they may be disappointed who curse your good manner of life in Christ." It is a good thing to be spoken against if you are doing what is right and if you are being accused in a false manner. People don't have to recognize that you are doing the right thing. But God will recognize you. No matter how hurtful the accusations you face are, remaining truthful to the word of God will be recognized by God.

Concerning your financial struggles, we want to remind you of Matthew 6:25-34, where Jesus tells us not to be anxious about what we will eat or drink, or what we will wear. "For the Gentiles seek after all these things, for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God's Kingdom, and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well." (Matthew 6:32-33 WEB). He knows your needs, and he will provide for you.

Lastly, let's pray for your situation:

"Father, the situation is difficult. We lift ### up to you. Heal ### physically. In this time of uncertainty and pain, we ask that you guide ### and provide for ### needs. Give ### a new job, a new home, and a new life and heal ### of all this pain ### is experiencing. We ask that you mend ### broken heart and help ### to forgive as you have forgiven us. Help ### to trust in Jesus. We ask this all in Jesus' name. Amen."

In this time of silence from your boyfriend, use the time to reflect and seek God and ask him what he wants from you. Perhaps he is guiding you to something more. As a group we will pray that your boyfriend will also seek Jesus and that he will also experience a new life. Jesus came to offer new life and it is this that we ask for both you and your boyfriend and that you are both reconciled to Jesus. Amen.

hostadmin · 2025-02-23T08:22:54-0600

We're here for you, and we're lifting you up in prayer. It's tough, we know, but remember, God is always with you. Let's focus on healing and moving forward. We're praying for your physical healing, a job that suits you, and a new place to call home. We're also asking God to mend your broken heart and fill you with His love and peace. Trust in Him, He's got this. Let's keep praying together. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.