Break up // Help.

[Anlathsethyoth]

Hello everyone, my name is ###

I fear I’ve made a mistake with my partner, now ex-partner. She is an amazing woman, intelligent, creative, beautiful, there are simply no words within the English language to describe her in. She did a lot for me, showed me a lot of affection, and I pushed her away with my snappiness, anger, and bitterness. I made her incredibly unhappy this last month which led to the breakdown of our relationship and now we are separated. She feels as though I can do better than her, and that my constant complaints and dissatisfaction was a reflection of her and not me. She believes that she is unhealthy for me. This woman is so selfless that she does not see that I am the one who is in the wrong and should be begging for forgiveness.

She does not want me back. She has gone cold with me and does not want to speak to me either.
I do not wish to manipulate; I only pray that the Lord gives us the opportunity for reconciliation, and that I can express my deepest regrets and make amends through our Father’s guidance. I only wish to make amends through genuine love and care.
We had discussed moving in together and children, a family together. My heart feels so heavy with grief.

Please let us pray together so that I can be granted a chance with my girl once again, if God wills it. I pray the Lord makes me better, makes me slower to anger, and makes me the partner that my woman needs me to be for her.

“Ephesians 4:2: Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.”​

With this in mind, I pray over me and my girl. I pray and humbly ask for forgiveness, for I was weak-minded and quick to respond with resentment towards someone I love dearly. I am a sinner, and I humbly pray that I can be forgiven for my sins and shortcomings. I pray that she can also forgive me. She is my best friend and someone I love so deeply I pray that we can come together once again, through your guidance and healing, and come together stronger. I pray through you Heavenly Father that once reconciled, our relationship is headed towards marriage. Lord I pray that you heal us both, our internal struggles, our minds, and any obstacles in our way, so that we can come together in harmony and in love just as you intended. I pray that you soften both of our hearts to allow for reconciliation, and grant us happiness. Please father bless us both. Please Lord, grant me this chance and reconciliation with her through your grace. Let me testify in your glory.

In Jesus’ name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

Anlathsethyoth, we understand the deep pain and regret you are experiencing following the breakdown of your relationship. Let us first turn to the Word of God for guidance and comfort.

In Ephesians 4:2, it is written, "Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace." Additionally, James 1:19-20 advises, "Let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to wrath, for the wrath of man doesn’t produce the righteousness of God."

We pray for you, ###, recognizing that your relationship has profound meaning and potential. We also acknowledge the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, as ordained by God. It is clear that you both were considering a future together, and we lift this hope before the Lord.

As we pray, we must address some critical aspects of your situation. Firstly, the term "partner" is used in your request. In the context of a biblical relationship, we encourage you to view this as a courtship aiming towards marriage. It is essential to seek a spouse who shares your faith and commitment to Christ.

Secondly, we address the anger and bitterness that contributed to the breakdown of your relationship. Proverbs 15:1 reminds us, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." We pray for healing and transformation in your character, that you may become slower to anger and more patient, as guided by the Holy Spirit.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your will and Your healing for ### and his former partner. Lord, we ask for forgiveness for any sins committed, for any words spoken in anger, and for any actions that have caused pain. We pray for reconciliation, if it is Your will, and for a restoration of their relationship under Your guidance.

Father, we ask that You soften both of their hearts, granting them the opportunity to come together in humility and love. Guide ### to be a better man, slower to anger, and more patient. Help him to become the spouse she needs, in accordance with Your divine plan.

Lord, we pray for healing of their internal struggles, their minds, and any obstacles that stand in the way of their reconciliation. May their relationship be directed towards a godly marriage, in Your holy name.

Finally, we pray that ### and his former partner find their hope and joy in You, Jesus Christ. May they both come to know You more deeply, and may their lives be a testimony to Your glory. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

###, we encourage you to continue seeking the Lord's will and to trust in His love and guidance. Remember, it is only through faith in Jesus Christ that true reconciliation and healing can occur. Stay steadfast in prayer and in the Word, and may the Lord bless you abundantly.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you for this.

Heavenly Father we lift this prayer up in your glory and ask that you grant this request as per your perfect will. Stay prayerful and faithful and know that God loves you and is always with you. In Jesus name we pray. Amen

 

[hostadmin]

I'm truly sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's clear that you both have a deep love for each other, and it's understandable that you're hurting. I want you to know that we're here for you, praying alongside you.

I'm reminded of 1 Corinthians 13:4-7, "Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres." Let's pray that God will help you both to love like this, patiently persevering through any challenges.

Lord, we come to you today, heavy-hearted but hopeful. We ask that you would heal the broken places in both of their hearts. Help them to forgive each other, as you have forgiven them. Give them the strength to love each other in a way that reflects your love for us. Help them to trust in your plan, even when it's hard, and to hope in your goodness, even when they can't see the way forward.

We also pray for wisdom, Lord. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, without bitterness or resentment. Help them to listen to each other, really listen, with open hearts and open minds. And we pray for your guidance, Lord. If it's your will for them to be together, help them to find their way back to each other. But if it's not, give them the peace and strength to accept that, and to move forward in your love and care.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Twigter]

I pray that God will hear your prayers and answer you, God bless you, in Jesus name, amen

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[Glogaria]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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[Anlathsethyoth]

The Lord answered my prayers - she called me today asking to speak and maybe meet up to talk. Thank you God for this opportunity. I look forward to seeing what He has in store for us.