Break up an unequally yoked relationship/ceremony?

[Amthalion]

Hello, I want to start out by thanking everyone for praying for me. Approximately four years ago, I met a Muslim man and I believe we did some type of marriage ceremony in a mosque. It was not what I thought it would be. I did not sign any contract nor anything else. The imam took my driver's license, but he only took a few notes and a small spiral-bound notebook. I’ve vaguely remember questions he asked. I was told there would be two witnesses there to confirm the ceremony but was told they were running late. He is a Sunni Muslim. I have heard of the “Temporary marriage or Haram.” I do not think that this is what it was. We are still together, but live separately because I am divorced and receiving alimony for another year. He did not want me to lose this income. But, at the same time, if I wanted to, he said we could live together, I would at that point lose the alimony. I have not pushed to live together as my family does not agree with our relationship and thinks it is over. I am a born again, Christian with Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior, as well as my family. I know I am in an unequally yoked relationship that is not what God our Father would want for me. I know the Bible tells me to not be yoked with unbelievers. I have tried multiple times to call off a relationship explaining to him that we are unequally yoked, and I cannot be with him. I continue to allow him back in my life because he is so, well, maybe even manipulative with his ever so loving words and promises, saying he will always love me no matter what. It is those words and times when I am in my anxious and depressive state that I want to believe in a love that he is expressing. I know the truth and I know I cannot be with him. I have typed up yet another email calling off the relationship once again explaining that God and Jesus Christ will always be first and foremost in my life, and I choose to be obedient to God and what He wants for my life. For the past month, he has been back home in Morocco and is now back in the US. He does not know that I am home from my Thanksgiving. I have been avoiding seeing him in person. I feel if I were to go see him and tell him my feelings and call off the relationship once again he would somehow sway my feelings and I would not be strong in person around him. As I mentioned, I have an email ready to send, but I’m feeling anxious and fearful because of my past experiences of letting him go and the anxiety and depression that follows. I am now fully believe it is time to completely let go and start a new life with my Lord and Savior in obedience. I am asking for your prayers to give me strength to hit the send button on my email to block him and move on. All prayers and support are very much appreciated. Thank you so much and I am thankful. I have found this wonderful community. ###

 

[Articles]

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, it is crucial to address the spiritual implications of your relationship. As a born-again Christian, you have acknowledged that you are in an unequally yoked relationship. The Bible is clear about this in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB:
Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?

Your relationship with a Muslim man is a direct violation of this biblical principle. Moreover, the ceremony you participated in is not recognized as a valid marriage in the eyes of God. According to the Bible, marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman who both believe in Jesus Christ. Any other form of union is not blessed by our Holy Father. God Himself OFFICIATES marriage so even if some kind of 'official' performed a ceremony God Himself must be the one that officiates. Your Holy Father was not invited to this ceremony.

Additionally, living together outside of a biblically recognized marriage is considered fornication, which is sinful. Hebrews 13:4 WEB says:
Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.

It is commendable that you have written an email to end this relationship, but it is crucial to follow through and send it. You have acknowledged that you need to choose obedience to God over your emotions. Remember, God will give you the strength to overcome this challenge you are going through.

We believe that the prayers of the righteous avail much (James 5:16 WEB):
Confess your offenses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who finds herself in a difficult situation. We pray that You will grant her the strength and courage to end this unequally yoked relationship and send the email she has prepared. Help her to stand firm in her faith and obedience to Your word. Lord Jesus help her to resist the devil so that he might flee from her in this circumstance.

We pray Father God that You will heal her from the anxiety and depression that have held her back. Surround her with Your love and peace, and guide her towards a new life that honors the our Holy Father. We ask that you send her someone truly worthy of her love and devotion. That is a godly man in your Holy Eyes.

We also pray for her Muslim friend that your Holy Spirit softens his heart and he comes to truly know you. Thank you that you came to save the unsaved both Jew and gentile alike. Help Jesus to forgive our sister and cleanse her heart and mind in your Holy Spirit.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We pray that your Holy Spirit inspired Jesus Christ's Words from Luke 12:32 WEB "Don't be afraid, little flock, for it is your Father's good pleasure to give you the Kingdom." We believe Jesus will give you strength and help you to forge past this. He is the King of kings and Lord of lords.

 

[Blessings1964]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

I'm here for you, dear friend. We're in this together, let's lift each other up in prayer.

Firstly, we agree with you that this relationship is not what God wants for you. It's hard, we know, but we're here to remind you that God's ways are always best. He has a plan for you, a future filled with hope and love (Jeremiah 29:11).

We understand that it's not easy to walk away, especially when emotions are involved. But remember, God promises to help us in our weakness. He'll give you the strength to send that email and block him, just as you've prepared (Philippians 4:13).

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, lifting up our sister in Christ. We ask for Your strength and courage to fill her as she takes the necessary steps to end this unequally yoked relationship. Help her to trust in Your love and provision, even when it's hard. We claim Your promise in Matthew 19:26, 'With God all things are possible.'

We also pray for healing from any anxiety or depression she's feeling. Surround her with Your peace and love, and guide her towards a new life that honors You.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[bobr69]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Camara]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Amthalion]

I sincerely appreciate each and every one of you for giving of your time to pray for me. I have read all the replies and prayed all the prayers.

 

[Skewrick]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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