We are truly saddened to hear about the painful experiences you have endured, and we are here to support you in prayer and truth according to the Scriptures. First, we want to address the root of the issue. It is important to understand that words spoken over you by your father or family members do not hold any power over you unless you believe them. The Bible tells us that "life and death are in the power of the tongue" (Proverbs 18:21 WEB), and we should not accept or speak negative words over ourselves or others.
It is clear that the words spoken over you were meant to harm and reject but they do not determine your destiny or define your worth. To refute this false identity you keep saying about your father and family you should put your faith and trust in God. He honors us when we honor our parents. God's word says "Honor your father and your mother, as Yahweh your God commanded you" (Deuteronomy 5:16 WEB). Also, it adds to say 'If any man think himself to be a prophet, or spiritual, let him acknowledge that the things that I write unto you are the commandments of the Lord. But if any man be ignorant, let him be ignorant.' (1 Corinthians 14:37-38 KJV) The Bible also tells us that 'he who believes will not make haste' (Isaiah 28:16 KJV). To honor and believe what your father and family has said about you would deny God's word in that we should honor our parents. We should understand and accept their result: if God is for us, who or what could possibly intervene (Romans 8:31)? We must realize the actual fact: what your father and family said and did no longer holds since it is God's Word that holds. God refuses to hear such low thoughts or assumptions by our blood relatives because these are now abandoned and God declares dominion and the independence of the suppressed.
As such, you are trying to obtain a blessing in the wrong way, which it will not happen. 'Children, obey your parents in all things: for this is well pleasing unto the Lord.' (Colossians 3:20 KJV) says to obey our parents in all things for this is pleasing to God. Yet, what is pleasing is not defined after the hatred and emotional abuse. Moreover, you said that you are the one making the effort to please your family, instead of your family pleasing you. God's Word says "But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel." (1 Timothy 5:8 KJV) In respects to your issue, it is you being the curse to your family not fitting in as you try to obtain the approval of your father by repeating what he said. However, God's Word promises for those that abide and trust in Him as 'Blessing, and not cursing.' (Romans 9:4 KJV) and 'who desires all men to be kept and to come unto the knowledge of the truth' (Timothy 2:4 KJV)
You've also mentioned sadness and distress because of lack of romantic love and relationships. To understand romantic relationships, we should understand God's design and purpose as the Bible describes several appropriate romantic relationships. Courtship is the initial stage and is not negative. The man and woman are unattached and use this time to determine if the other person is a compatible and godly spouse. Dating is a more intimate stage that can include physical intimacy, so long as it does not involve sexual relations. Engagement is the final step to marriage where a public proposal is made by both parties to each other and preparations for the wedding begin. Marriage completes the four steps of courtship, dating, engagement, and concludes in marriage. Recall: 'Can two walk together, except they be agreed?' (Amos 3:3 KJV)
A Wife is venerated: 'For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth' to 'be married' and 'only in the Lord' (1 Corinthians 7:39 KJV) 'But we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.' (2 Thessalonians 3:6 KJV) If the end to this relationship is not marriage, then to what end are you seeking after? It is strongly advised and well known: 'Neither is the man without the woman, neither the woman without the man, in the Lord.' (1 Corinthians 11:3 KJV) That said: 'now such persons we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread.' (2 Thessalonians 3:12 KJV)
The Word of God is clear on intimate relationships outside of marriage. The Bible warns us against fornication (sexual immorality), which includes any sexual activity outside of marriage between believers:
''Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness'' (Galatians 5:19 WEB). Thus we are given the best and called to have a good landscape: 'But fornication and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints' (Ephesians 5:4 KJV) If the other person or both are Christian believers, possible that they would want to please Christ and abstain from fornication and adultery: 'There hath no temptation taken you but such as is common to man: but God is faithful, who will not suffer you to be tempted above that ye are able; but will with the temptation also make a way to escape, that ye may be able to bear it.' (1 Corinthians 10:13 KJV)
We are commanded to seek healing and growth. The Bible tells us that we are to forgive but not discount those who wronged us and that does not apply to all: 'Wherefore I say unto thee, Her sins, which are many, are forgiven; for she loved much: but to whom little is forgiven, the same loveth little.' (Luke 7:47 KJV) This does not include nor requires us to accept systemic patterns or consequential events from abusive people. 'The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband.' (1 Corinthians 7:3 KJV). As believers we are glad for our marriages and God is glad and relates marriage as the ultimate sacred responsibility therefore be bound and cleave to it: 'Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.' (Matthew 19:6 KJV) and be a strong follower and in faith be on a firm foundation: 'Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.' (1 Corinthians 11:1 KJV) Use discretion, the blessing he left, and prayer to stop blasphemy, error, idolatry, and immorality:
This applies to same sex marriage or relationships.
This does mention and not permit fornication or adultery from forbidden non-marital sex. After understanding all of these things, God is Holy and will not dwell in the heart of he that will not live in holiness. To acquire holiness, one must be holy. The authority of scripture does understand that man's desires lead him astray. The Holy Spirit within each person allows to come to understand and attain fullness of their blessings.
In Jesus Christ, we have a hope and future. We recognize in your request that you did not mention the use of Jesus', Jesus Christ's, or Christ's name. We want to emphasize the importance to pray in Jesus' name as it is only Christ's shed blood that allows us to approach 'the throne of grace with confidence, so that we may receive mercy, and may find grace for timely help.' (Hebrews 4:16 WEB) Jesus made it clear saying: "Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full." John 16:23-24 "In that day you will no longer ask me anything. Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you." (John 16:26 WEB) It is only possible because we have redemption through His blood and Christ is the only mediator between God and men since 'the wages of sin is death', Jesus Christforeach died in our place because all men are sinners
and 'the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.' (Romans 6:23 KJV) What blessed assurance we have that Jesus' blood is enough for the forgiveness and cleansing of sins and being able to approach God humbly as we ask in Jesus' name. Through Jesus' grace 'Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.' (Hebrews 4:16 KJV) He is the the one who can make intercession for us, who prays for us.
Now let us pray together for you in Jesus' mighty and holy name.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister in Christ who is experiencing emotional distress from her relationship with her father, her family members, and a lack of romantic relationships. We ask, Father, that You would break the power of any harmful words or curses spoken over her and replace them with Your truth and blessings. Help her to forgive those who have wronged her, just as You forgive us in Christ 'Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamour, and evil speaking, be put away from you, with all malice' (Ephesians 4:31 KJV) If applicable and in accordance with Your laws and will, then we pray for an outcome that allows to not seek or be in an ungodly memory or emotion of being harmed. Now give grace to understand more and how to overcome the wrongful actions and statements made by her father and family. Send your message of your truths to all involved.
'A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance: but by sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken.' (Proverbs 15:13 KJV) Because you are a God that is Holy and helps His children to be Holy and heals all wounds: Lord, we pray understand that You have created and loved her with an everlasting love and be able to overcome and war against the real spirits and emotions that come and rise up in life. Let her now know that she is: 'Fearfully and wonderfully made' ( Psalm 139:14 KJV)
Father God, we pray for healthy, godly relationships in her life, including a Christian companion and spouse if it is Your will. We pray that You would guide her steps and open doors for relationships that honor and glorify You and Your Holy Words. You guide her in Your truths and understanding that proper relationships are a man and woman in marriage and courtship, as according to Your Holy Scripture with the sole closeness of sexual relationships limited to marriage.
We call for peace and happiness according to Your will. Allow her to lead a happy, peaceful, and productive life with real truth, peace, and fruits from her as a faithful Christian believer, and positive impact on her world as she walks and speaks in the full authority and victory of Jesus Christ by way of the Holy Spirit.
We reveal all we have prayed in the sovereign name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth as we understand that it is all that and by Your holy will according to Your command 'This is life eternal, that they might know thee the only true God, and Jesus Christ, whom thou hast sent.' (John 17:3 KJV)
Amen.
Without your message and words we could not make it out to the other side. Therefore, 'Let us hold fast the profession of our faith without wavering' (Hebrews 10:23 KJV) "Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life." (Jude 1:21 WEB)
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
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