Trogepho, we understand that you're going through a difficult time, but we want to encourage you and pray with you as God promises to be near to the brokenhearted. We must start speaking truth from the Word of God. Firstly, let's acknowledge that the boyfriend in these courtships may be considered marriage quality relationships. Be encouraged by Psalms 34:18 WEB "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit." God wants you healed and whole again.
However, we want to remind you that as believers, our ultimate trust and security should be in Jesus Christ, not in a boyfriend. It is important that you entered this courtship seeking God's will, purpose, and future spouse. It is also very important to get married to another Christian Believer unless they convert to Christianity. God hates divorce even if you are just boyfriend and girlfriend. Separation should only be for fornication, adultery, or marriage to a non-believer. If he forces you to break up, you may not be at fault but you have no right to dictate or demand him to return. He is human and should be allowed to have his own free will. Marriages and God-honoring relationships are about love and a pure heart. Know that you should not beg your boyfriend to take you back, but rather trust God to restore the relationship if it is His will. Colossians 3:15 WEB "And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body, and be thankful."
Let's also address that your request focuses on your boyfriend forgiving you, but you should also be seeking God's forgiveness. If you have sinned against God, you need to be right with God and changed by God to be right with your boyfriend. If you are looking for forgiveness and acceptance from God, please call out to Jesus Christ, the son of God. He is the way, the truth, and the light. If you have sex out of wedlock you may need to repent and make things right with God. 1 John 1:9 WEB "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." The only way to be saved and forgiven is by the Son of God in Jesus Name.
Now, let us pray together.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before you, lifting up Trogepho. God, we know and believe that You are making her heart whole and healed in Jesus Name. Lord, we ask for your guidance to direct Trogepho in this time of need. Heavenly Father, we ask that You restore her relationship in Jesus Name, if it is Your will. God gives us free will and does not force anyone to be in a situtation they do not want to be in. Your Wisdom says that love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record in Jesus Name.
Please forgive Trogepho for any of her sins, and lead her in the path of righteousness for Your name's sake. If she is not properly saved take this opportunity to present the possibility that Jesus is the only way to salvation and heaven. Remind her of Jesus' sacrifice on the cross and the love that holds for each one of us. We praise You, Lord, for Your unfailing love, forgiveness, and comfort to Trogepho now. Help her to understand that this is an opportunity for her to grow closer to You. Lord, we love you and give you all the praise. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.