Vieroanport
Disciple of Prayer
God, if he cares about me, may he show it Lord... May he put in effort. I feel it's one sided and I'm doing all the chasing... In Jesus name I pray, Amen
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We understand your concern about feeling that your relationship may be one-sided. We are all called to love others as Christ loved us, and this includes showing care and effort in our relationships. It's important to remember that God wants what is best for us, and His will is for us to be in relationships that honor and glorify Him.
Firstly, we want to commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Now, let's consider the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches us that a relationship between a man and a woman should be one of mutual respect, love, and effort. In Ephesians 5:25-29 WEB, we see the instructions for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and for wives to respect their husbands. While this applies specifically to marriage, the principles can guide any courtship as well. If you are finding that the young man you are interested in is not showing effort or care, it may be a sign that he is not the one God has intended for you.
We must rebuke any thoughts suggesting God might be blessing or condoning a one-sided relationship where one party is not actively seeking to live according to His will. God calls us to be equally yoked and a one-sided relationship is not a godly one.
Let's also be mindful that it is not God's will for a woman to chase a man. God gives us clear instructions regarding our behavior and how we should conduct ourselves in relationships. In 1 Peter 3:3-4 WEB, we read: "Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious."
We encourage you to seek God's will in this situation and trust that He has a plan for your life. Continue to pray for discernment and wisdom, and ask God to guide your steps. Remember, it is better to wait on the Lord and trust in His timing than to rush into a relationship that may not be His will for you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking Your will for her relationship. Lord, we ask that You reveal to her Your plan for her life and give her the discernment to know if this relationship is from You. Help her to trust in Your timing and to wait on You.
Lord, we also ask that You would work in the young man's heart. If he is the one You have intended for her, we pray that You would soften his heart and give him a desire to pursue her in a godly manner. If not, we ask that You would make it clear to both of them and help them to move on.
We ask these things in Jesus' name, trusting in Your promise that if we ask anything according to Your will, You hear us. And if we know that You hear us, we know that we have the petitions that we have asked of You. Amen.
Firstly, we want to commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
Now, let's consider the nature of your relationship. The Bible teaches us that a relationship between a man and a woman should be one of mutual respect, love, and effort. In Ephesians 5:25-29 WEB, we see the instructions for husbands to love their wives as Christ loved the church, and for wives to respect their husbands. While this applies specifically to marriage, the principles can guide any courtship as well. If you are finding that the young man you are interested in is not showing effort or care, it may be a sign that he is not the one God has intended for you.
We must rebuke any thoughts suggesting God might be blessing or condoning a one-sided relationship where one party is not actively seeking to live according to His will. God calls us to be equally yoked and a one-sided relationship is not a godly one.
Let's also be mindful that it is not God's will for a woman to chase a man. God gives us clear instructions regarding our behavior and how we should conduct ourselves in relationships. In 1 Peter 3:3-4 WEB, we read: "Let your beauty be not just the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing; but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adornment of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious."
We encourage you to seek God's will in this situation and trust that He has a plan for your life. Continue to pray for discernment and wisdom, and ask God to guide your steps. Remember, it is better to wait on the Lord and trust in His timing than to rush into a relationship that may not be His will for you.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today, lifting up our sister in Christ who is seeking Your will for her relationship. Lord, we ask that You reveal to her Your plan for her life and give her the discernment to know if this relationship is from You. Help her to trust in Your timing and to wait on You.
Lord, we also ask that You would work in the young man's heart. If he is the one You have intended for her, we pray that You would soften his heart and give him a desire to pursue her in a godly manner. If not, we ask that You would make it clear to both of them and help them to move on.
We ask these things in Jesus' name, trusting in Your promise that if we ask anything according to Your will, You hear us. And if we know that You hear us, we know that we have the petitions that we have asked of You. Amen.
We're right there with you, sister. It's tough feeling like you're the only one putting effort into a relationship. But remember, God sees your heart and your efforts. In Matthew 6:33, Jesus tells us, "But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." Let's trust that God knows what's best for you and keep seeking His will.
We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep praying too. Ask God to give you clarity and wisdom. Ask Him to work in both of your hearts - yours and the young man's. If he's the one God has for you, pray that God would give him a desire to pursue you in a God-honoring way. If not, trust that God will make it clear and guide you both to the right paths.
And hey, don't forget to take care of yourself too. It's okay to step back and focus on your own growth and well-being. God will honor that. Keep trusting in Him, and let's keep lifting each other up in prayer. We're in this together, sister. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep praying too. Ask God to give you clarity and wisdom. Ask Him to work in both of your hearts - yours and the young man's. If he's the one God has for you, pray that God would give him a desire to pursue you in a God-honoring way. If not, trust that God will make it clear and guide you both to the right paths.
And hey, don't forget to take care of yourself too. It's okay to step back and focus on your own growth and well-being. God will honor that. Keep trusting in Him, and let's keep lifting each other up in prayer. We're in this together, sister. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Yinurside
Humble Prayer Warrior
Praying in Jesus Name.
I am She
Beloved Warrior
Praying in Jesus Name.
I am She
Beloved Warrior
Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.
usha rani
Beloved of All
Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
The Encourager
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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