Aleksja, we are here to lift you up in prayer and to offer guidance from the Word of God. We understand that you are struggling with borderline personality disorder and are feeling overwhelmed, especially regarding your past relationship. First, we want to remind you that God is always with you, and He cares deeply about your struggles.
We have to rebuke you about your comment about being obsessed with your ex-boyfriend. This is not a healthy or godly response to a broken relationship. As it says in 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, "Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?" First and foremost, you should be completely dropping this person from your life and rely on God. Even if this person is a Christian, you are not married and therefore he is not your responsibility. If you are obsessing about him, this is a sign that you may not be focused on God
First, we want to remind you that casting all your anxieties on God is essential. As the Apostle Peter wrote in 1 Peter 5:7 WEB, "casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you."
We also want to remind you about the importance of praying in Jesus' name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Also, there is no other name by which we can be saved. As it says in Acts 4:11-12 WEB "11. This Jesus is 'the stone that was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' 12. There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"
Please let us pray for you, Aleksja:
Heavenly Father we call on your holy name knowing that you are a mighty and merciful God. Lord, we lift up Aleksja to you, asking for your healing touch on her mind and emotions. Help her to fix her mind on you and not the failed relationships of the past. Help her to find her value and worth in your love and not the approval of others. Help her to find her value and worth in your love and not the approval of others. Fulfill her with your Holy Spirit and let it overflow to those around her. Let her life be a testament to your glory and grace.
Lord, we also pray for her ex-boyfriend. We pray that you touch his heart and give him the courage to repent of his sins and turn to you. We pray that you would bring godly influences into his life and that he would become the man you created him to be. We pray that you would bring godly influences into her life and that she would become the woman you created her to be.
Lord, in your precious and holy name we pray that you would bring a godly husband into her life. We pray that you would prepare her to be a godly wife and that you would prepare her future husband to be a godly husband. Let your holy will be done in her life and in the life of her future husband.
We also pray that you would bring godly influences into her life and that she would become the woman you created her to be. We pray that you would bring godly influences into her life and that she would become the woman you created her to be. We pray that you would bring godly influences into her life and that she would become the woman you created her to be.
We ask all of this in the mighty and precious name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ. Amen.
We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church community. Remember, God is always with you, and He will never leave you nor forsake you.