We understand that you are feeling like a scapegoat in your family, and we are here to pray and offer guidance based on biblical principles. Firstly, we commend you for acknowledging Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through His name that we have access to God the Father, for He is the mediator.
In many families, one member often feels blamed or singled out, but we want to remind you of what the Scripture says: "For you are all children of God, through faith in Christ Jesus." (Galatians 3:26 WEB) You are not a scapegoat but a child of God, deeply loved and valued by Him.
We must also remember that Jesus Himself was blamed and scapegoated, yet He responded with love and forgiveness. "Father, forgive them, for they don't know what they are doing." (Luke 23:34 WEB) This is not to say that you should accept mistreatment, but rather that you should strive to respond with love and forgiveness, setting boundaries as needed.
In terms of healing, we know that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. (Psalm 34:18 WEB) Trust in Him to heal your wounds and restore your soul.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our brother who feels like a scapegoat in his family of origin. We ask that You would heal his wounds, mend his broken heart, and restore his soul. Grant him the grace to forgive, just as Jesus forgives us. Give him the strength to set boundaries when needed, and to respond in love, not retaliation. Remind him of his true identity as a child of God, deeply loved and valued.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Lastly, consider the words of Romans 8:28 (WEB), "We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose." Trust that God can use even this difficult situation for good.