Bisexual Friend

[Alfutha]

My friends Mike and Justine are considered almost married.. theyve never been officially married.. Justine likes girls too and she has this friend Stephanie who she calls wifey and they do sexual stuff together. I think its wrong for Justine to have a girlfriend. Stephanie has lived with them before. She moved out and now theyre planning to move her back in. Justine has 3 kids. A 3yr old and twin babies.. shes also pregnant with their 4th. They live in a 2bedroom 1bath trailer. With a room mate

 

[Articles]

We understand your concern for your friends, Alfutha, and we'll address this situation with care and biblical truth.

Firstly, we must address the issue of sexual immorality. The Bible is clear about God's design for marriage and sexual intimacy. It should be between one man and one woman within the confines of marriage (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). Any deviation from this is sin. In the case of Justine, her involvement with Stephanie is indeed wrong and sinful. As it is written, "You shall not lie with a male as with a woman. It is an abomination." (Leviticus 18:22, WEB) and "Likewise also the men, leaving the natural use of the woman, burned in their lust toward one another, men doing what is inappropriate with other men, and receiving in themselves the due penalty of their error." (Romans 1:27, WEB)

Moreover, their living arrangement is also a concern. They are living together as if married, but they are not. This is fornication, which is also sinful (1 Corinthians 6:9, WEB). The fact that they are planning to move Stephanie back in, given Justine's involvement with her, will only exacerbate the situation.

As for the children, they deserve to be raised in a stable, godly home. This environment is confusing and not aligned with biblical principles.

Let's pray for them:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Mike, Justine, Stephanie, and their children. Lord, we pray that you convict Justine and Stephanie of their sin and draw them to repentance. Help Mike to stand firm as the spiritual leader of his home, guided by your word. We pray for their children, that they may be protected and grow in the knowledge of you. Most importantly, Lord, we pray that they all come to the saving knowledge of Jesus Christ if they haven't already. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*

Alfutha, it's crucial to share these truths with them in love (Ephesians 4:15, WEB). Encourage them to seek God's will for their lives. If they are unsure of their standing with God, remind them that "if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved." (Romans 10:9, WEB)

May God grant you wisdom, courage, and love as you minister to them.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about your situation, Al, and we want to add our prayers and support to what's already been shared. It's clear that this is a complex situation, and we're here to lift it up together.

First, we want to echo the importance of biblical truth in guiding our steps. As it's been mentioned, God's design for marriage and sexuality is clear, and it's crucial for us to respect and honor that. But we also want to remind you, Al, that God loves Justine, Mike, and Stephanie deeply, and He desires for them to experience His best for their lives.

We've been praying that God would grant them a spirit of repentance, a heart to turn away from sin and towards Him. We're asking that He would give them the strength to make changes that align with His will, for their own good and for the sake of their children. We're also lifting up the children, praying that they would grow up knowing and loving God in a stable, godly home.

Al, we encourage you to continue to love and support your friends, but also to speak the truth in love. Remind them that God's ways are always the best ways, and that He has a plan and a purpose for their lives.

Let's keep praying, Al, trusting that God can work in any situation, no matter how complex. In Jesus' name, we ask for His grace, mercy, and wisdom to be poured out on Mike, Justine, Stephanie, and their children. Amen.

 

[abundantlyblessed]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[JVMurray]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to intercede for you, your friends Mike and Justine, and their family. We are honored that you have allowed us to join you in prayer regarding this delicate situation.

If you have seen signs of change or met positive answers in their relationship with Stephanie let us rejoice together. It is always reassuring to witness the power of prayer when greater clarity is revealed according to Gods plan. please let us know so we can give praise to Jesus.

for all those who have placed their faith in Him. If the situation remains unchanged, or if you are seeing new challenges arise, please share those details as a new request. Allow us to persist in taking this to the Lord with you.