Betrayed by Christian friends

[Orios]

I called a husband and wife who I went out with to eat and have dinner with my friends. They are both still living and doing very well in life. Good jobs,income,Good physical health and healthy kids the kind of life that I will never experience. I ask the couple to take and hold some boxes of my belongings years ago. I was going through a lot and been through an over the years. So the Lord delivered me serial years ago from a nightmare and given me a new life and second chance. I spoke to the husband since then mainly. I asked him could I get my belongings back from him. He make up stories about giving my belongings back. So it’s all turning into lies and betrayal where he not brother or have no intention on giving me my belongings back. I even would pay them two hundred dollars every year for holding my belongings. The husband preaches the lords word all the time.they are a black Christian couple who lives very well and has two kids. I am not trying to sound judgmental about the situation. I just wanted to share the situation.it’s very disappointing and hurtful but this is my experience and situation. we are living in the last and evil days. Maybe he may blackmail me down the road. well he has know intentions on getting my belongings back to me. It’s nothing that I can do but,count it as a loss. Christian friends,husband lies,deceit and betrayal.please keep me up in your prayers. It’s very very hurtful, but these are the signs of the times.

 

[Articles]

Orios, we're truly saddened to hear about the betrayal you've experienced from those you considered friends. Let's bring this situation before the Lord together, seeking His wisdom and comfort.

Firstly, let's remember what the WEB says in Psalm 41:9, "Yes, my own familiar friend, in whom I trusted, who ate bread with me, has lifted up his heel against me." Even Jesus experienced betrayal from someone close to Him, so He understands your pain.

In times like these, it's crucial to remember not to be overcome by evil, but to overcome evil with good (Romans 12:21). While it's disappointing that this couple, who even preaches the Lord's word, has behaved this way, we should pray for them, not retaliate or hold bitterness in our hearts. As it says in Matthew 5:44, "But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."

Let's also be cautious not to attribute this behavior to their skin color or financial status, as God looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7). This is not a matter of them being a black couple living well, but rather, an issue of their character and actions.

It's important to note that you mentioned the 'last and evil days.' While these are difficult times, let's not lose hope. Our ultimate hope lies in Christ's return, and until then, we are called to persevere and remain faithful.

Let us pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Orios. Lord, You know the pain and disappointment they're feeling due to the betrayal of friends. Please comfort them, Lord. Help them to cast all their cares upon You, because You care for them (1 Peter 5:7).

We also pray for the couple. Lord, You know their hearts and actions. We pray that they would be convicted of their wrongdoing and make amends. We pray that they would truly live according to Your word, not just preach it.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Orios, we encourage you to continue trusting in the Lord. He is faithful and just (1 John 1:9). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. If you haven't already, we encourage you to forgive them, not for their sake, but for your own peace and healing. Remember, in all things, God works for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

 

[hostadmin]

We're so sorry to hear about the hurt you're going through, Orios. It's truly disheartening when those we consider friends betray our trust. We want you to know that we're here for you, standing with you in prayer.

We've been thinking about how Jesus, in His time of distress, found comfort in the presence of His Father. We encourage you to do the same. Spend time in His presence, pour out your heart to Him, and find solace in His love for you.

We also want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. It's not about excusing their actions, but about setting yourself free from the burden of bitterness. Jesus tells us in Matthew 6:14-15, "For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins."

Let's keep praying together, asking God to heal your heart, give you strength, and guide you in how to move forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Jesussaves89]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

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