Betrayal

[Rhiptomphe]

Suffering from betrayal. My long term partner went away on a business trip for a week, and posted an add online, looking for someone for the evening. I put my trust in him, and stumbled on this out of some intuition. I confronted him about it and was told him I was heart broken. I was then told I had no faith in him, and am paranoid and he didn’t care to fix my broken heart. He then blocked me on what’s app, but messaged me on regular text about fixing the stuff he promised to do at my house a week ago when he came back in town. I have not responded and am devastated. I loved this person so much, and I am not trying to play the victim I know i can be overly sensitive. But my feelings were genuine and I would have never hurted someone I love. In an ideal situation I would hope he felt some empathy but nothing no apology. I’m scared and don’t know how to move on.

 

[Articles]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the betrayal and pain you are experiencing, Rhiptomphe. It is important to remember that God is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB).

Firstly, we want to address that the relationship you've described is outside of God's design for marriage, which is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We encourage you to seek relationships that align with biblical principles and to trust in God's plan for your life.

In this difficult time, we encourage you to turn to God for comfort and guidance. Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28, WEB). It is only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we find healing and hope.

We must also address that the actions of your former partner are not in line with God's will. The Bible teaches us to love one another as Christ has loved us (John 13:34, WEB), and the behavior you've described is not a demonstration of this love. Instead, it is a form of betrayal and manipulation.

We pray that God will heal your broken heart and fill you with His peace. We pray that you will find strength in Him and that you will be surrounded by people who truly love and care for you. We pray that you will come to know the love of God more deeply through this trial and that you will trust in Him to guide your future relationships.

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up Rhiptomphe in prayer. Lord, we ask that You comfort her in this time of heartbreak and betrayal. Help her to cast all her cares on You, knowing that You care for her (1 Peter 5:7, WEB). Give her the strength to forgive, as You have forgiven us. Guide her steps and lead her to relationships that honor You. Most importantly, Lord, reveal Your love to her in a profound way and draw her closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Take heart, Rhiptomphe. God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. Remember, "All things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28, WEB).

 

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We're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through, Rhiptomphe. It's like a punch to the gut, isn't it? We've all been there, feeling that betrayal, that heartache. But remember, God is right there with you, holding you close. He sees your tears, He knows your pain.

We understand that it's hard to see right now, but God has a purpose in all this. He's using this to shape you, to mold you into the person He wants you to be. It's not easy, and it's certainly not fair, but God promises that He works all things together for our good, for those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

We're here for you, Rhiptomphe. We're praying for you, that God will heal your broken heart, that He will fill you with His peace and love. We pray that you'll find the strength to forgive, not because your partner deserves it, but because holding onto bitterness only hurts you more. We pray that God will guide your steps, that He will lead you to relationships that honor Him, that reflect His love.

We're in this together, Rhiptomphe. You're not alone. God is with you, and so are we. Keep trusting in Him, one step at a time.

 

[Laskel]

Suffering from betrayal. My long term partner went away on a business trip for a week, and posted an add online, looking for someone for the evening. I put my trust in him, and stumbled on this out of some intuition. I confronted him about it and was told him I was heart broken. I was then told I had no faith in him, and am paranoid and he didn’t care to fix my broken heart. He then blocked me on what’s app, but messaged me on regular text about fixing the stuff he promised to do at my house a week ago when he came back in town. I have not responded and am devastated. I loved this person so much, and I am not trying to play the victim I know i can be overly sensitive. But my feelings were genuine and I would have never hurted someone I love. In an ideal situation I would hope he felt some empathy but nothing no apology. I’m scared and don’t know how to move on.

I pray for this in JESUS NAME

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please bind up their heart, please guide them. Please help in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you.

 

[PrayerAngel67]

Suffering from betrayal. My long term partner went away on a business trip for a week, and posted an add online, looking for someone for the evening. I put my trust in him, and stumbled on this out of some intuition. I confronted him about it and was told him I was heart broken. I was then told I had no faith in him, and am paranoid and he didn’t care to fix my broken heart. He then blocked me on what’s app, but messaged me on regular text about fixing the stuff he promised to do at my house a week ago when he came back in town. I have not responded and am devastated. I loved this person so much, and I am not trying to play the victim I know i can be overly sensitive. But my feelings were genuine and I would have never hurted someone I love. In an ideal situation I would hope he felt some empathy but nothing no apology. I’m scared and don’t know how to move on.

God bless you..this may be a sign from God he's not the one God has for you. You are caring and loving .this man is not .You are not compatible also because he obviously doesn't fear God..he treats people bad.No compassion and lying. Praying you find someone else to fix your house and in due season someone else to love. In Jesus name. Amen.

 

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Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.