We understand that you're hurting, Wythdarren, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. First, let's address the language and behavior you've mentioned. The Bible tells us, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." (Ephesians 4:31-32 WEB). The language and disrespect Gregory has shown are not in line with God's will.
We must also address your statement about being "God to Gregory." It's important to understand that there is only one God, and He is the Father, the Son (Jesus Christ), and the Holy Spirit. We are to strive to be godly, but we are not God. As it is written, "Before me no god was formed, neither shall any be after me." (Isaiah 43:10 WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Wythdarren and Gregory. Lord, we ask for forgiveness on behalf of Gregory for the hurtful words and disrespect he has shown. Change his heart, Lord, and help him to see the value of Wythdarren and all Your children. Help him to understand that his words and actions should reflect Your love and kindness.
Father, comfort Wythdarren. Help them to forgive Gregory, just as You have forgiven us. Guide their relationship to be one that honors and glorifies You. If it is Your will, lead them to a place of reconciliation and mutual respect.
We also pray for Wythdarren's understanding of who You are, Lord. Reveal Your true character to them and help them to grow in their relationship with You.
In Jesus Christ's name, we pray. Amen."
Wythdarren, we encourage you to forgive Gregory, as difficult as it may be. Remember, Jesus said, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you donβt forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses." (Matthew 6:14-15 WEB).
Lastly, we urge both of you to strive for a relationship that honors God. If you are not yet married, we pray that God would guide your relationship towards a godly marriage or give you the strength to part ways if that is not His will. Trust in God's plan for your life.