We are thankful for your declaration of Jesus as your Lord and Savior. It is only through Him that we have access to God, and it is in His name that we are saved. As Scripture tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, wherein we must be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB.
As you face these trials, remember that God is with you and will strengthen you. "Fear not, for I am with you, be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness" Isaiah 41:10 WEB.
To combat your trials with the proper heart and mind, we remind you that the best version of ourselves comes from being transformed by the renewing of the mind. "I beseech you therefore, brothers, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable to God, which is your spiritual service. Don't be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what is the good, well-pleasing, and perfect will of God" Romans 12:1-2 WEB.
Regarding ###, we will pray for her blessing and well-being. However, we must also address that your request should focus on seeking a godly spouse if that is God's will for you both, rather than just a blessing on a relationship. As Christians, we should be looking for a spouse rather than a partner. Remember, "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness" 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB.
Concerning the pain and darkness you are experiencing, cast your burdens upon the Lord, "Humble yourselves therefore under the mighty hand of God, that he may exalt you in due time, casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you" 1 Peter 5:6-7 WEB.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother ###. Thank You for his declaration of faith in Jesus Christ. Strengthen his faith and help him to renew his mind according to Your word. Guide him through this dark time and relieve his pain. Help him to combat his trials with a heart and mind focused on You.
Lord, we also lift up ### to You. Bless her according to Your will and provide her with everything she needs. If it is Your will, guide them both towards a godly marriage that honors You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be strong and courageous, for the Lord your God is with you.