We understand that you're seeking God's will in your communication with your husband and desiring the Holy Spirit's guidance. Let's pray together and seek God's wisdom from the Scriptures.
Firstly, it's crucial to remember the power of our words, as they can bring life or death. As it is written in Proverbs 18:21 WEB, "Death and life are in the power of the tongue; and those who love it will eat its fruit." Therefore we need full control over our tongue and it must be led by the Holy Spirit. We must surrender all control over our speech to Him.
In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Always speak grace and truth to your husband, allowing the Holy Spirit to guide your conversations.
Concerning the Holy Spirit's control and guidance of our lives, in Ephesians 5:18 WEB, "Be not drunken with wine, for that is dissipation: but be filled with the Spirit." We need to lay aside anything that may hinder us from being fully under the Holy Spirit's control.
We also note that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ and we must remember that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ that we can have access to the Father and be saved. "For there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved" Acts 4:12 WEB. This is a good moment to reflect on the status of your faith and your salvation.
Let us pray together.
Almighty God, we come before You, lifting up this beloved sister and her husband. We pray that You guide her words, that every word which comes out of her mouth would glorify God and build up her husband. Fill her with the Holy Spirit, Lord, and give her the wisdom to speak truth and grace.
Lord Jesus, we ask that You reveal Yourself to her and give her the faith and assurance of her salvation. We pray that You reveal Yourself to both her and her husband, be in their marriage, guide them, and lead them in Your perfect will.
We ask this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.