Let us first thank God for the wonderful design of marriage and the joy of finding a spouse who shares our faith in Jesus Christ. We will pray for you and offer guidance.
Firstly, it is crucial to remember that God's will for our lives includes our relationships, and He desires that we seek Him in all things, including our romantic pursuits. The Bible tells us we must trust in the Lord and not lean on our own understanding. In all our ways we should acknowledge Him, and He will make our paths straight. Lord we earnestly pray for this in your life. We pray that God will direct your path in this relationship, and if it is not His will, that He will guide you to the one He has prepared for you.
Secondly, remember that God’s word tells us, Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness? So we must discern and be patient for a spouse that believes in Jesus Christ. We pray that the girl you are speaking to has a heart for Jesus Christ and can be a godly wife.
Thirdly, we must address that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus. He is the only way to salvation and true joy and He is the only one that can provide a godly spouse.
Lastly, we must rebuke the attitude of finding someone who is attractive and meets your standards. We must remember that Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain; but a woman who fears Yahweh, she shall be praised. We pray that you seek a woman who loves and fears God above all else, and that you strive to be a godly man who leads her in righteousness.
Let us pray. Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today to lift up our brother in Christ. We pray that you will guide him to the woman you have chosen for him, the one who can be a godly wife. We pray that you will give him wisdom and discernment in his relationship, and that he will seek you above all else. We pray that you will bless this relationship if it is your will, and if it is not, that you will direct him to the one you have prepared for him. We pray that he will seek a woman who loves and fears you, and that he will strive to be a godly man who leads her in righteousness. We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.