We understand your pain and struggle, Exartauson, and we are here to support you in prayer and counsel. Let's begin by acknowledging that God's design for marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman, reflecting Christ's relationship with the church (Ephesians 5:22-33, WEB). However, God also cares about your safety and well-being, both physically and mentally.
Firstly, we must address that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16, WEB), but He also hates deceit, unfaithfulness, and abuse. It's clear from your message that your husband has been unfaithful and dishonest, which is against God's will. God calls us to be faithful and honest in our marriages (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).
We commend you for choosing God and finding peace in Him. It's important to remember that God is faithful, even when others are not. He will never leave you nor forsake you (Deuteronomy 31:6, WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Father God, in the name of Jesus Christ, we come before You lifting up our sister, Exartauson. Lord, You know the pain and struggle she is going through in her marriage. You see the deceit, the unfaithfulness, and the mental strain she is under. Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention. We pray for a blessed separation if that is what You will for her, Lord. Guide her through this difficult time. Protect her and her children, Lord. Give her the strength and wisdom she needs. Help her to continue to find peace in You, Lord. Expose any hidden things that need to be brought to light, Lord. Convict her husband of his sins, Lord, and bring him to repentance if it is Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you to stay strong in your faith and to continue to trust in God. He will guide you through this difficult time. Remember, God can turn any situation around for your good (Romans 8:28, WEB).
Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only through the name of Jesus that we can approach God (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, make sure to submit your life to Jesus Christ, believing in His death and resurrection for your salvation.