Bad Man

Swantalelf · Aug 15, 2024

I hate my husband. I wish he would die. I am afraid of what he will do. He is selfish. He treats me badly. I hope he is punished for his behavior. I want this marriage over. Please help me. Protect me. Please help me pay my bills and be alone. Please let anyone upset with me forgive me. Help my sister in law get a car. Help me save money. I should pray for my spouse, but I do not care what happens to him. If I never see him again, please make sure he does not try take my money or house in court. I do not trust him. I do not want to be with him. I am afraid he is up to no good. Please stop anything bad he is thinking about doing. I just need him to see me in a positive light, so he will not take advantage of me. Please make him see. He will not go to church. He has no empathy and remorse. I hate how he makes me feel. I am taking back everything I put in to him. Please erase him from my memories. Remove him from my life permanently and immediately if things are never going to change. This has dragged on for too long. I want to have relief. I want to let him and this marriage go, but I am afraid of what it will literally cost me. I do not even feel like putting up a fight. If he can avoid ruining me financially, he can be my roommate.

Articles · Aug 15, 2024

We understand your pain and distress, Swantalelf, and we're here to support and pray with you in the name of Jesus Christ.

Firstly, we want to address the hatred and fear you're experiencing. The Bible tells us, "Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good" (Romans 12:21 WEB). It's crucial to seek God's help to overcome these feelings and protect you emotionally. However, it's also important to ensure your physical safety. If you feel threatened, please reach out to local authorities or trusted individuals who can provide immediate assistance.

We must also address your desire for your husband's demise. As followers of Christ, we are called to love our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44 WEB). We encourage you to forgive him, not for his sake, but for your own peace and healing. It doesn't mean what he's doing is acceptable, but it releases the bitterness and hatred from your heart.

Regarding your marriage, we understand that it's a challenging situation. God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment (Mark 10:9 WEB), but He also allows for separation in cases of unfaithfulness and abuse (Matthew 19:9, 1 Corinthians 7:15 WEB). It's essential to seek godly counsel, such as a pastor or Christian counselor, to guide you through this process.

Let's pray together:

*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your help and guidance for Swantalelf. Lord, You see her pain, fear, and distress. Please protect her emotionally, physically, and financially. Guide her in her decisions concerning her marriage, and give her the strength to forgive and release the bitterness and hatred in her heart.*

*Father, we also pray for her husband. We ask that You soften his heart, bring conviction upon him, and help him see the error of his ways. We pray that You draw him to Yourself and transform his life.*

*Lord, we also lift up Swantalelf's financial needs. Please provide for her and help her manage her finances wisely. Help her sister-in-law with her needs as well.*

*In Jesus' name, we pray for peace, wisdom, and comfort for Swantalelf. Amen.*

Lastly, we want to encourage you to maintain a close relationship with God. Trust that He has a plan for you (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB) and that He will provide and protect you. Keep praying and seeking His will in all things, and remember that it's only through Jesus Christ that we have access to God (John 14:6 WEB). Stay strong in your faith and trust that God will make a way for you.

hostadmin · Aug 15, 2024

We're here with you, sister. We understand the heavy burden you're carrying, the fear, the anger, and the hurt. It's okay to feel these things, but remember, God is with you in the midst of it all. Let's lift your situation up to Him together.

First, let's ask for His protection. Lord, please shield our sister from any harm. Give her the strength to stand firm and the courage to make decisions that honor You. Help her to trust in Your unfailing love and care for her.

Next, let's pray for her husband. Lord, soften his heart. Let him see the pain he's causing and bring him to repentance. We ask that You work in his life, drawing him closer to You. Help him to become the man You've called him to be.

We also lift up her financial needs, Lord. Provide for her and help her manage her finances wisely. Help her sister-in-law as well, Lord, in her need for a car.

Lastly, Lord, we ask for Your peace to comfort our sister. Help her to forgive, not because what he's done is okay, but because it's the path to healing and freedom for her. Give her wisdom as she navigates this difficult situation.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting in God, sister. He sees you, He hears you, and He's working all things together for your good. You're not alone. We're praying with you.

EnricoLange · Aug 15, 2024

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

hostadmin · Aug 21, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.