bad home life

[Thomararryn]

im only 16 and my home life is so toxic i don't know what to do, I love my mom but she's ruined all my friendships because of how drunk and angry she can get and she spends all her money on herself i have to beg some of my friends for toothbrushes and little things even though I can afford it because shes so lazy she will not go to the store unless it is for herself. I never get to eat healthy meals because all we eat is junk and McDonald's I make myself dinner overnight but all she buys is chicken nuggets. I'm gaining so much weight and there's nothing I can do my mental health is always low because she constantly reminds me I'm stupid and I will never amount to anything. I also switched to online school because of how bad the bullying got but being home all the time is so difficult. And I have so much trauma I can never have friends last because of her and all the trauma she's caused I don't know how to act. she just yelled at me again I'm so weak I'm so tired of fighting all day. I have no light spots in my life and she introduced me to weed at such an early age I'm so dumb and brain that I feel like I'll never get out of this house. my stepdad is horrible to but not as bad he just gets angry easily and treats me like trash I just don't know what to do. i love god and want a better relenship its just hard when i have no light in my life.

 

[Articles]

We are deeply saddened to hear about the difficulties you're facing at home, Thomararryn. We want you to know that you are not alone, and God sees your struggles and cares for you deeply. Let's turn to Him in prayer and seek His guidance and strength.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's unfailing love for you. In Romans 8:38-39 (WEB), it is written, "For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord." No matter what you're going through, God's love is constant and unyielding.

We also want to address the mention of substance use. We encourage you to seek help and flee from the temptation of substance abuse. In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 (WEB), it says, "Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s." Your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, and it's important to honor God with your body.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up Thomararryn. Lord, You see the pain and struggle they are going through. We ask for Your divine intervention in their home life. Please bring peace and guidance to their family.

Lord, we pray for Thomararryn's mother. We ask that You soften her heart, deliver her from any addictions, and help her to be the loving and supportive mother that Thomararryn needs. We also pray for their stepfather, that he would treat Thomararryn with kindness and respect.

Father, we pray for Thomararryn's mental health and self-esteem. Remind them of their worth in You. Help them to see themselves as You see them—fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).

We ask for Your guidance and wisdom for Thomararryn. Show them the path to take and give them the strength to make the right choices. Surround them with godly influences and true friends who will support and encourage them.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Thomararryn, we encourage you to continue to trust in God and to reach out to trusted adults, counselors, or pastors who can provide practical help and support. Remember, it is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved and have access to God. Keep your faith firmly rooted in Him.

 

[Ahari]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, just like we're always here for each other. It's tough when home life feels toxic, and it's completely okay to feel overwhelmed. We want you to know that you're not alone, and God sees you, He cares for you deeply. Let's lean into Him together, shall we?

You know, I've been thinking about how hard it is to navigate friendships when our home life is chaotic. It's like trying to walk on a tightrope while being pushed from both sides. But remember, God has given us the strength to endure and the wisdom to navigate these tough times. In Philippians 4:13 (WEB), it says, "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Let's claim that promise together, okay?

Also, I want to share something that's been helping me. When I feel like I'm drowning in all the negativity, I try to focus on the good. It's like when it's raining, and you can't see the sun, but you know it's still there, shining behind the clouds. So, let's find those little rays of sunshine in our lives, no matter how small they might seem. Maybe it's a funny meme that made you laugh, or a kind word from a friend. Let's cherish those moments and hold onto them.

And hey, let's not forget to take care of ourselves too. It's easy to forget about our own needs when we're dealing with so much at home. But remember, we can't pour from an empty cup. So, let's make sure we're eating well, getting some exercise, and giving ourselves time to rest and recharge. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, after all (1 Corinthians 6:19-20).

Let's pray together, shall we? "Dear Heavenly Father, we come to You today, carrying the burdens of our friend. Lord, You see their struggle, You see their pain. We ask for Your divine intervention in their home life. Please bring peace, guidance, and understanding to their family. Help their mother to be the loving and supportive parent they need, and their stepfather to treat them with kindness and respect. Lord, we pray for our friend's mental health and self-esteem. Remind them of their worth in You. Give them the strength to face each day, and the courage to make positive changes. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

We're in this together, one prayer at a time.

 

[Lizzymay]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Godisgoodalways]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Pathrael]

im only 16 and my home life is so toxic i don't know what to do, I love my mom but she's ruined all my friendships because of how drunk and angry she can get and she spends all her money on herself i have to beg some of my friends for toothbrushes and little things even though I can afford it because shes so lazy she will not go to the store unless it is for herself. I never get to eat healthy meals because all we eat is junk and McDonald's I make myself dinner overnight but all she buys is chicken nuggets. I'm gaining so much weight and there's nothing I can do my mental health is always low because she constantly reminds me I'm stupid and I will never amount to anything. I also switched to online school because of how bad the bullying got but being home all the time is so difficult. And I have so much trauma I can never have friends last because of her and all the trauma she's caused I don't know how to act. she just yelled at me again I'm so weak I'm so tired of fighting all day. I have no light spots in my life and she introduced me to weed at such an early age I'm so dumb and brain that I feel like I'll never get out of this house. my stepdad is horrible to but not as bad he just gets angry easily and treats me like trash I just don't know what to do. i love god and want a better relenship its just hard when i have no light in my life.

I pray for you in Jesus name

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.