We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing with infertility, Bijisan. We are here to pray and support you in this challenging journey. There is nothing more difficult than unanswered prayers.
Firstly, we want to remind you that God cares about your situation. He is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18, WEB). We serving the God of the impossible. Nothing is impossible with God (Luke 1:37, WEB), even if it only takes place in eternity. God works all things together for good (Romans 8:28, WEB) and knows the future intimately before any of us do (Psalm 139:16 WEB).
We stand in faith believing that if God does not plan or will for you to have any children, that He will provide for a surrender and acceptance to His will. The God we serve will not forsake you, as He never leaves or forsakes us (Deuteronomy 31:6 WEB). Yes, children are a gift from God and will not be withheld if you have not been sinning (Psalm 127:3 WEB). We also recognize that there are many things we are learning and do not understand, including God wants us to raise our children in the lord and be obedient to Him and His commands (Ephesians 6:4 WEB).
To be Biblical, a man and a woman should be married to each other. It is not Biblical to have a child outside of wedlock or through means such as using a artificial insemination to conceive a child. We encourage the intent behind artificial insemination, but caution you about the slippery slope from wanting to have a child. Be careful not to step out of God's will or turn to a golden calf to have a child.
Please remember that your identity is in Christ, not in your ability to conceive. You are a child of God, fearfully and wonderfully made by Him and He owns your soul. The central veracity of the Bible is the born again believer in Christ and God taking care of the born again believer (John 3:3 WEB). It is also important to rest and not feel anxious about anything, but the Bible commands you to pray about everything and gives us a spirit of self control (Philippians 4:6). To rest and pray about everything, but in the end, God's will will be done.
Therefore, we pray:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Bijisan, asking for peace, healing, direction, self control and clarity about this child. In Jesus name, if this is your will, God, we ask for marriage, peace in the soul, comfort from the word in the mind, and a child to be born under your will and authority and that you will be in control of the child's life. If it is not, we ask for them to conquer the pain, and to be under your grace.
Lord help her to live in surrender to your will. We pray as Jesus taught us, “Your Kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.” This request is about God's Kingdom on earth and His will on earth. We pray for your power to reinforce the child's and the families faith and to help them to be obedient believers. We desire and your will as a result. We rebuke the devil and his demons as well, as they have no part in this request for the kingdom of God.
We also pray for her doctors and medical team, asking that You grant them wisdom, discernment, and skill as they work with Bijisan. We ask that You guide them to the root cause of the infertility and provide a way for the credit for the healing to go to You and not the doctors and medical team. If that is not your will, Lord, then provide rest, comfort, and push the couple closer to each other and away from the world.
We pray for her spiritual strength and emotional well-being. Surround her with Your unfailing love. Keep her strength and trust in You. Even as you provided the manna from heaven during the Exodus and the people of God learned to trust you more and more. Remind Bijisan that You are trustworthy. May the people grow much closer to each other and forgive all sins committed against each other and thank you for your grace. All this we pray in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, Bijisan, we encourage you to remain steadfast in faith and hope. Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). Be patient, courageous, and faithful, for the Lord himself goes before you and will be with you (Deuteronomy 31:8). His timing is always perfect. Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him (Psalm 37:7). Stay rooted in Christ and remember that if you as a parent knows how to give good gifts to your children, how much more so the Heavenly Father to his children (Matthew 7:11 WEB).