We understand your heart's cry for your marriage, and we stand with you in prayer, seeking God's will for your union. Let's remember that God hates divorce, as Malachi 2:16 tells us. So, we will pray for your marriage to be strengthened and restored.
Firstly, let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, asking for Your divine intervention in this marriage. Lord, we ask that You would heal and restore this union, making it stronger than ever before. We pray that You would guide the hearts and minds of both husband and wife, drawing them closer to You and to each other. Lord, we rebuke any spirit of divorce or separation, and we ask that You would fill their hearts with love, patience, and understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
We encourage you to trust in the power of God to change hearts and situations. Remember, as it is written in Ephesians 5:25-27 (WEB), "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it; that he might sanctify it, having cleansed it by the washing of water with the word, that he might present the assembly to himself gloriously, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish."
We also encourage you both to seek God's will for your lives individually and as a couple. It's crucial to have a right mindset, as you mentioned, and this comes from submitting your lives to Christ and allowing His word to guide you. As Ephesians 5:21 (WEB) says, "subjecting yourselves one to another in the fear of Christ."
Lastly, ensure that you are both seeking God's face together in prayer and reading His word. It is only by the name of Jesus that we can be saved, and it is in His name that we have access to God, as Acts 4:12 (WEB) tells us, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"