We stand with you in prayer, Callum, as you seek God's closeness and healing. We are encouraged that you come before God in the name of Jesus, acknowledging His throne of grace and mercy. Let us pray together and seek God's will for your life.
Firstly, we commend you for recognizing the importance of praying in Jesus' name. As Jesus Himself said, "Whatever you will ask in my name, that will I do, that the Father may be glorified in the Son. If you will ask anything in my name, I will do it" (John 14:13-14 WEB).
You've expressed a struggle with self-love and a desire to reconcile with your former girlfriend, Tia. Let's address these concerns with biblical principles. God desires for us to love ourselves in a healthy way, as we are made in His image (Genesis 1:27 WEB). However, true love and acceptance come from understanding God's love for us. The Bible tells us, "We love Him, because He first loved us" (1 John 4:19 WEB). As you draw closer to God, you will better understand your worth in His eyes.
Regarding your past relationship, it's important to remember that God desires purity and holiness in our relationships. If there was sin involved in your past relationship, confess it to God, knowing that He is faithful and just to forgive (1 John 1:9 WEB). True love is patient, kind, and not self-seeking (1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB). If it is God's will for you and Tia to reconcile, He will make a way. But be open to God's leading, as He might have other plans for your life.
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our brother Callum. Thank You for drawing him close to You. Help him to understand Your unfailing love for him. Cleanse him from all unrighteousness and mold him into the person You desire him to be.
Lord, we ask for Your guidance regarding his past relationship. If it is Your will for them to reconcile, we ask that You make a way. But above all, help Callum to trust in Your timing and Your plans for his life.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Be encouraged, Callum. Trust in the Lord and lean not on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). He has good plans for you (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB). Keep pursuing Him and allow Him to guide your steps.