Asking god for a sign from the woman I love

Callum · 2025-01-31T07:55:37-0600

Dear God I come to you in the name of Jesus asking for a sign that the woman I like and love and want to be with has the same feelings, we haven't met yet lord but she tells me that she loves me, but I have my doubts we have been talking every day lord since we first started speaking, this is the first day that I have had the urge to message her but haven't as I don't know what to do, so I ask you lord if we are meant to be then please give me a sign help her to reach out to me today as I can't handle this pain and hurt any longer, lord I've hardly slept last night because I found out something that I wasn't supposed to know or meant to know, I feel so cold lord that I've been crying most of today when I've been alone, I don't know who to turn to over this situation, but what I do know is that I want to talk to her after she reaches out, I also want to be with her lord please please help me lord, we both keep saying that I need patience and that is something I'm learning but also struggle with, lord I can't help but think in my head and heart that not only am I being punished but also that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life, please don't let this happen I want to get married and have a family so that I can be a loving father and husband but I'm starting to believe someone like me can never be happy, I put on a brave face around my family, friends and colleagues lord but I'm hurting on the inside, I just want to hear from her if she is truly the one I'm ment to be with please help us lord, in the name of our lord and saviour Jesus Christ I pray Amen

Articles · 2025-01-31T07:57:53-0600

Let us first thank you for coming in the name of Jesus, as it is only through Him that we have access to God. It is only in the name of Jesus that we can be saved. As scripture says “in whom we have boldness and access in confidence through our faith in him.” (Ephesians 3:12 WEB). We are also encouraged by hearing you desire a wife and to be a loving husband and father. We are reminded “So then they are no more two, but one flesh. Therefore what God has joined together, let no man separate.” (Matthew 19:6 WEB) about marriage and that it is a lifelong commitment.

However, let us caution you, dear brother, about a few things. You mentioned that you have not met this woman yet, and that you both have been communicating daily. While it is good to learn about each other, we must be careful not to awaken love before its time, as we are warned “I adjure you, daughters of Jerusalem, by the roes, or by the hinds of the field, that you not stir up nor awaken love, until it so desires.” (Song of Solomon 2:7 WEB). It is good to take the time to meet in person, with family or friends, and grow in your knowledge of each other in a way that honors God.

We also hear your doubt and pain, dear brother, and we want to remind you that God is close to the brokenhearted, and He hears your prayers. “The LORD is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit.” (Psalm 34:18 WEB). We encourage you to continue in patience and to trust in God's timing. We also advise you to guard your heart and not to become too emotionally attached before knowing if this relationship is truly God's will for your life. It is important to take the time to discern and pray before starting a courtship.

We also want to encourage you to seek godly counsel and community during this time. It is important to have other believers around you to support, encourage, and pray for you. We want to remind you that you are not alone, and that God has a plan and a purpose for your life. “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace, and not of evil, to give you hope and a future.” (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).

Let us pray together for you, dear brother:

Heavenly Father,

We come before You today in the name of Jesus, lifting up our brother Callum. Lord, we thank You that he has come to You in prayer, seeking Your will and Your guidance. We ask, Father, that You would comfort his heart and give him Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help him to cast all his anxieties on You, knowing that You care for him.

Lord, we pray for clarity in this situation. If this woman is truly the one You have intended for him, we pray that You would make it clear and that You would guide their steps. Help them to honor You in their relationship, and to seek Your will above all else. If she is not the one You have for him, we ask that You would gently close the door and guide him to the woman You have prepared for him.

Help him to be patient, Lord, and to trust in Your timing. Give him the strength to guard his heart and to discern Your will. Surround him with godly community, Lord, and help him to seek wise counsel.

Finally, Lord, we pray for his future spouse, whoever she may be. Prepare her heart, Lord, and guide her steps. Bring them together in Your perfect timing, and help them to have a godly, loving marriage that honors You.

In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

hostadmin · 2025-01-31T08:00:57-0600

We're right there with you, Callum. It's tough waiting and not knowing, but remember, God's timing is always perfect. We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you to keep trusting in God's plan. It's okay to feel hurt and confused, but just keep holding on to the promise that God has a purpose in all this.

We've been where you are, feeling like we're in limbo, not knowing what to do or say. But we've found that the best thing is to keep communicating openly and honestly, while also giving each other space to process our feelings. It's not always easy, but it's worth it to do things God's way.

We're here for you, Callum. Let's keep lifting each other up in prayer, asking God for clarity and peace. And remember, it's okay to not have all the answers right now. Just keep taking one step at a time, trusting that God is leading you every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

flora · 2025-01-31T08:20:58-0600

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

usha rani · 2025-01-31T09:32:47-0600

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

Cinu · 2025-01-31T15:02:28-0600

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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The Encourager · 2025-01-31T15:18:20-0600

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.