Asking for the Lord to please help ...

[Anonymous]

Asking for the Lord to please help me with my goal of having a soulmate. There is someone in my life currently that I care about but I'm scared I might have ruined things, or may end up getting hurt and I don't want to hurt in this area anymore. I don't want this void anymore. I understand God comes first and that is why I am asking Him to please let this connection lead to something more beautiful, something I've prayed about. I had a different feeling with this person in comparison to other people I've had feelings for before. We have known each other a few years but have been talking a lot for the last few months, and it is a situation where we are in separate states. He is here visiting and we were intimate at least one instance during his visit. I felt a connection and he seemed affectionate. Things always seem natural and wonderful when I am with him in person, or talking with him online/on the phone. I have waited for a long time to find love and it's the one thing I want in my life more than anything, second only to my mother having the best health that she can. I have so much love I want to give. I've changed and reviewed my personal dating standards many times. I feel so ready for love and I keep getting let down each time no matter what I do. I end up getting scared because I don't want to get hurt again. I get that pain and trials and tribulations are a part of life, but I don't know if I can tolerate anymore pain in this area of my life. The fear and anxiety that stems from this is crippling. (Having an anxiety disorder diagnosis does not help.) Everyone tells me to do things for myself and it's literally ALL I HAVE BEEN DOING MY ENTIRE LIFE. I want to share my life with someone. Have a new home with them. Potentially start a family. I don't want to run anymore. I don't want to cry about this anymore unless it's from sheer joy. Having a life partner is the one thing I've always wanted in my life. More than money or the nicest material things said money could buy. I hate that I have had more experience with showing off my body on occasion online than I have experienced true intimate love. I am so embarrassed by this. Showing off for a few words of praise and positive attention isn't love. I only did that in an attempt to fill some of the void that being single and lonely leaves…but it never really did. It was just one cheap thrill after another. And although these instances were occasional, again, they outweigh the amount of love I have felt or was able to share with another partner. It just would not make sense to me that God would make me a romantic and loving person, but leave me lonely. All the while, talking with men during intimate moments, on or offline…they don’t understand how I’ve been alone all of this time and am a natural at being a loving person. It makes me feel isolated from everyone else. If any of this pain and fear I’m experiencing is karma for anything I did in the past, whether the cyber sexual activity or a white lie or how I handled a toxic ex…whatever it is, I am truly sorry and am asking forgiveness for whatever the situation is that is incriminating me. I’m not sure what other lesson there is for me to learn. I get that my anxiety is bad, but I am between jobs and until I can start my health insurance and look into how that will work at my new job…I can’t afford to see a therapist at this moment and I know free therapy will only help so much. I don’t want to wait until I’m old and it doesn’t matter to anyone any more to live my dreams and truly start the next phase of my life. Ii have begged got for this mentally for years, and now I’m doing it verbally and physically too. Lord, please don’t let this fall apart. Please let this work out. I’m ready for love. I’m ready to share my soul. I have nothing to hide. Please, God, I’m giving you this situation. Please don’t let this be another mistake. Please don’t let me have to live my life believing that I’m not meant to have love, because we as humans were not defined to be alone. They always say that people want to have loving relationships for the wrong reasons. Sex/intimacy is beautiful, and it would be nice to share a home and things with someone…but it’s like God taught us….sharing LOVE with other people is a beautiful thing. And if nothing else in this life outside of my mom’s health, the one thing I would love more than anyone else in the world (and I’m hoping I’m on the right track for this)….is to be someone’s other half and spend the rest of our lives together. Lord, I’m asking You to PLEASE let this go well. PLEASE let this have a better outcome. All I’ve ever known is cheap thrills, hurt, and anxiety. I want to move on from all of this and I believe this guy and I crossed paths for a reason. Lord, PLEASE let this work. Please help me with this. Amen.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear friend who is seeking Your guidance and help in finding a soulmate. Lord, You know the desires of their heart and the longing they have for a loving and fulfilling relationship. We ask that You would bless them with wisdom and discernment as they navigate their feelings and interactions with the person they care about.

Father, we pray for healing from past hurts and fears that may be hindering their ability to fully embrace love. Your Word says in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We ask for Your peace to guard their heart and mind, alleviating the anxiety and fear that they are experiencing.

Lord, if it is Your will, we pray that this connection they feel with this person will blossom into something beautiful and lasting. Guide their steps and help them to trust in Your perfect timing and plan. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." Help them to trust in You fully, knowing that You have a good plan for their life.

We also lift up their mother, asking for Your healing touch and the best health possible for her. Surround them both with Your love and comfort.

Lord, we know that You are the giver of all good things, and we ask that You would fulfill the deep desire of their heart to find a life partner with whom they can share their life, build a home, and potentially start a family. May Your will be done in their life, and may they find joy and fulfillment in Your presence.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear friend Anonymous. Lord, You know the desires of their heart and the longing they have for a soulmate. We ask that You guide them in this journey, providing wisdom and discernment in their relationship.

Father, we pray for healing over any past hurts and fears that may be hindering their ability to fully embrace love. Your Word says in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We ask for Your peace to fill their heart and mind, removing all anxiety and fear.

Lord, if this current connection is Your will, we pray that You bless it and allow it to grow into something beautiful and lasting. Help them to trust in Your timing and Your plan, knowing that You have their best interests at heart. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." We ask for this trust to be deeply rooted in their heart.

We also lift up their mother, asking for the best health and well-being for her. May Your healing hand be upon her, providing strength and comfort.

Lord, we know that You are the ultimate source of love and fulfillment. Help Anonymous to keep You first in their life, finding their identity and worth in You. We pray that You bring the right person into their life, someone who will love and cherish them as You do.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you for this. Stay prayerful and strong in faith. Remember God loves you and is always with you. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen~

 

[Skewloch]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Quaritus]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always respect, obey and honor You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Sanjoy Mudoi]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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[Ruffdred]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear friend who is seeking Your guidance and help in finding a soulmate. Lord, You know the desires of their heart and the longing they have for a loving and fulfilling relationship. We ask that You would bless them with wisdom and discernment as they navigate their feelings and interactions with the person they care about.

Father, we pray for healing from past hurts and fears that may be hindering their ability to fully embrace love. Your Word says in Philippians 4:6-7, "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We ask for Your peace to guard their heart and mind, alleviating the anxiety and fear that they are experiencing.

Lord, if it is Your will, we pray that this connection they feel with this person will blossom into something beautiful and lasting. Guide their steps and help them to trust in Your perfect timing and plan. Proverbs 3:5-6 reminds us to "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to Him, and He will make your paths straight." Help them to trust in You fully, knowing that You have a good plan for their life.

We also lift up their mother, asking for Your healing touch and the best health possible for her. Surround them both with Your love and comfort.

Lord, we know that You are the giver of all good things, and we ask that You would fulfill the deep desire of their heart to find a life partner with whom they can share their life, build a home, and potentially start a family. May Your will be done in their life, and may they find joy and fulfillment in Your presence.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Hi. as far as a soulmate: learn to love yourself more. with or without someone else. try going online and BE CAREFUL. there are many wonderful attractive people online now. whether you are married, or with someone does not define you. And what other people think is not important. Relax, stop trying so darn hard, if you seem desperate, that’s not going to attract someone. in fact, being more aloof will make you seem more attractive to someone, because you’re not chomping at the bit. get a real nice selfie done and go online. never go in a strangers house or car. meet in a public place until you can get to know someone. try multiple times. date multiple people. don’t put all your eggs in one basket you may meet someone and have it not work out. or just the opposite. Get pro active. try hard. and remember. friendship is underrated. and sex isn’t a be all end all. keep trying.