We understand your struggle, Bepergor, as you seek God's will in your relationships. Let's turn to God's Word for guidance.
Firstly, regarding your ex, Tia, it's important to remember that God's will is for us to be united with Him, and often, that means letting go of past relationships, especially if they did not align with His principles. In 2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, it is written, "Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?" Consider if reaching out to Tia will draw you closer to God or potentially lead you away from His path.
It's also crucial to trust in God's guidance, as He knows what is best for us. Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB says, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." If your gut is telling you not to reach out, it might be the Holy Spirit guiding you.
As for your hopes about Natalia, it's important to examine your motives. If your interest in Natalia is romantic, ensure that this alignment with biblical principles. Remember, relationships should be a pathway to godly marriage, not just casual encounters. 1 Thessalonians 4:3-5 WEB tells us, "For this is the will of God: your sanctification, that you abstain from sexual immorality, that each one of you know how to possess himself of his own vessel in sanctification and honor, not in the passion of lust, even as the Gentiles who don’t know God."
Let's pray together:
"Heavenly Father, we come before You with Bepergor's concerns. Lord, guide his heart and mind regarding Tia. If it is Your will for him to reach out, make it clear and give him the right words. If not, help him to trust in Your path for his life. Regarding Natalia, Lord, if it is Your will for them to spend time together, align their plans. But above all, Lord, we ask that You guide both of them in Your ways, that they may grow closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Bepergor, continue to trust in God, and He will direct your paths. Keep praying and seeking His will, knowing that His plans are always good, acceptable, and perfect (Romans 12:2 WEB).